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Slim68

Junior Member
What is the name of your state? NJ

This email was sent to my employee in February. It was sent to Senior Directors, VP and the Board of Directors sent from her work email address. I am now afraid that I may be charged with child molestation as I have a new email claiming that I fondled a child. What should I do? The email is below. I removed the names, telephone number and names of the company I work for.


Hi,



I was wodering if you guys can answer a question for me? What makes a man a man? See I thought for the last 2 1/2 years I was with a man but apparently it was a child all along. You all know him but let me give you a hint. This person had worked with you in the past and maybe even now but let me inform you about the piece of sh*t of a man in your presence.



This person informed his fiance on Christmas night that he no longer wanted to be in a relationship with her and he wanted to end it with her. He said he had a crush on R M (another worker at Co name) and he wanted to pursue that and instead of cheating on me, he rather end it with me so he can pursue that. His justification was that we were not married. Never mind the fact we had a daughter, never mind the fact he propsed to me in February 2005, never mind the fact he just purchased a house with me in November 2005....No, his dick was itching him and he wanted it scratch by R M of Co name. Oh trust me, she exists. Matter fo fact, you can give her a call @ (000) 000-0000. I believe she works out of the Forest Hills office.



So what do I make of this? I am pissed. Pissed because in a nutshell he wasted my time and he brought a child into this that he (according to him) never wanted. I am pissed that after being patient and understanding about our nonexistent sex life (on account of him and when I say nonexistent, I am talking about sex 1 time every other month) and his enormous addiction to internet porn (I'm talking about being on sex sites from 10 p.m. to 3 a.m. daily)....He decided he wanted to date R M, a decrepit 40 year old whore who has a highschool degree. Oh, and if you are saying that I shouldn't be mad at her, trust me, i should. see R has been secretly talking to him since September 2005, knowing he is engaged and has a child. She knew about me because he and she made it a sore point to call each other when he was working from 6:30 a.m. - 3 p.m. and only on his days off when I was at work....but what they fell to realize is that all calls made and place can be seen on the family plan cell phone bill that we use to share. I am pissed that I gave him, the best part of me and worked to create a comfortable life for us that he decides after everything is said and done, he doesn't want this. Maybe you are saying I don't meet up to standards. Let me give you some background about me.



I have a Bachelors in Accounting and just obtained my Master's in Accounting. I make great money and work for one of the Big Four Accounting firms as an Auditor. I was blessed physically as well as mentally. I am a strong individual but a loving one too. I always maintained a job (before and after pregnancy), take care of our daughter, home and made time to spend with this person but that wasn't good enough. He didn't want an equal partner, he wanted a mother and I refused to be that for him. At the end of the day, he felt inadequate and inferior to me. So instead of communicating to me all the things he felt, he kept it inside. Instead of telling me what he needed, he kept it inside. Instead of being truthful to me about what he was going through, he kept it inside. And on that faithful night, he decided I don't want you, I don't want the responsibility, I don't want any of this. And maybe you are saying, "oh, maybe it's talk and he jsut saying that". No, he is currently f*cking her, he even brought her to the house we use to share (that was just purchased in Novemeber 2005). Remember, he ended it Christmas night and started a relationship with her in January after I moved out on the 3rd...wow. And when i call him a piece of sh*t, he is baffled as to why I would say that (WTF).....



So, I ask you again, what makes a man a man? One who owns up to his feelings, one who is honest, truthful and respectful of people involved in his life. One who does not decide his sexual inadequaciies defines he needs to leave his fiance and abandon the family he created because his d*ck itches for R M of Co name and that man is not P W.



Nikki
 


AL HR

Member
Huh, I don't understand this part?
<<I am now afraid that I may be charged with child molestation as I have a new email claiming that I fondled a child. >>

Are you saying this was email #1 that was sent about you and the above is about a #2 email?
 

Slim68

Junior Member
I'm sorry! This is the newest email. I don't think it will ever end.

P,

K brought to my attention that R gave her a bath (and touched her "pee pee" and "poo poo") when she spent the night with you on Sunday, December 3, 2006. If this is the case, since I was not there, please know that it is very Inappropriate for her to be touching or handling K is such a manner. Once again I am re-emphasizing that the responsibility of giving K a bath or wiping her (after she uses the bathroom) is yours solely. I hope this can be rectified immediately. Thank you.

Nikki
 

fairisfair

Senior Member
okay, some confusion here, are you the man that isn't a man, or the new girlfriend, that it seems is being "almost" accused of fondling the child.

First of all, if you are the man, then your girlfriend has absolutely no business bathing your child. Stop that immediately.

As for the other crap, unless it is an outright lie, then there is not much you can do on the liable or slander issue.

I would however be curious regarding it's possible effect on your business reputation. . . .

you might consider a restraining order, and contacting an attorney regarding a cease and desist letter.
 

Slim68

Junior Member
I am the girlfriend.

The child only stays over on Sunday nights and by Monday 0600 I am at work so I have never bathed the child. What's more disturbing is that she claims her father sexually molested her as a child and now she has her child living in the same environment. I'm concerned because she obviously will do anything to get back at the ex and I have no intention of being arrested, tried and convicted of some false charges and she was molested by her father I would guess he would be willing to molest his grandchild as well.

The letter is false but how do you prove it? The only thing you can prove his that they did not purchase a house together.

There has to be a way to stop this without father giving up his parental rights.
 

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