SNAnderson
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Michigan
Hello everyone, I have a question I was hoping someone could give me some perspective on. I would be very grateful. I'm about as far from an expert on insurance issues as possible, so please bear with me.
My father passed away in May of this year, and I am having some problems understanding what is going on. My mother and my father were legally separated, and he was living with his girlfriend at the time of his death. Without going into it too much, his death was ruled an accidental overdose.
My dad's girlfriend told the people at the funeral home that my dad and mom were divorced. My mom had to show proof that she and my father were still legally married to the insurance company and have the death certificate amended. The whole thing has been dragging on for almost 5 months. The last time she talked to someone at the insurance company, they told her they could not release the information of who the beneficiary was to her, and that the beneficiary had already been notified. Obviously it was not her, myself or my sister since none of us have been notified. Also, his girlfriend is trying to sue the hospital, saying that the doctors didn't do enough to help him.
I don't care if I never recieve a penny of the money, but my mom was dependant on my dad, and my sister and I are not in any position to support her. Could my dad have just named his girlfriend as the beneficiary even though he was still legally married? I don't know why she would have had to show proof that they were still married if that was the case. If he did name his girlfriend, is it something that would be worth getting a lawyer over, or is it pretty much set in stone?
I'm sorry this is so long, hopefully I provided all the information needed. If anyone has any insight I would really appreciate it.
Hello everyone, I have a question I was hoping someone could give me some perspective on. I would be very grateful. I'm about as far from an expert on insurance issues as possible, so please bear with me.
My father passed away in May of this year, and I am having some problems understanding what is going on. My mother and my father were legally separated, and he was living with his girlfriend at the time of his death. Without going into it too much, his death was ruled an accidental overdose.
My dad's girlfriend told the people at the funeral home that my dad and mom were divorced. My mom had to show proof that she and my father were still legally married to the insurance company and have the death certificate amended. The whole thing has been dragging on for almost 5 months. The last time she talked to someone at the insurance company, they told her they could not release the information of who the beneficiary was to her, and that the beneficiary had already been notified. Obviously it was not her, myself or my sister since none of us have been notified. Also, his girlfriend is trying to sue the hospital, saying that the doctors didn't do enough to help him.
I don't care if I never recieve a penny of the money, but my mom was dependant on my dad, and my sister and I are not in any position to support her. Could my dad have just named his girlfriend as the beneficiary even though he was still legally married? I don't know why she would have had to show proof that they were still married if that was the case. If he did name his girlfriend, is it something that would be worth getting a lawyer over, or is it pretty much set in stone?
I'm sorry this is so long, hopefully I provided all the information needed. If anyone has any insight I would really appreciate it.
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