to answer your question
The death has not occurred yet. However, it states in the papers the the policy holder, has to pay is ex wife, in order to pay for his policy. He does not want is ex to reap any benefits of his death, should it occure. She is the trustee for the child, but she is very dissorganized and pays no bills ontime including her mortgage with his name still on it. In GA, we learned that the order cannot be changed, so he wanted to make it void upon his death and take out and pay for his own policy on the child and not name his ex as the trustee.