Maine- recent divorce, got house after mediation.........

[bettsadam]

maine- ive been to court, had mediation, got the house, but its in her name and she got a restraining order against me, now she will not give up the information so I can pay the mortgage, what should I do? should I file a contempt on her? at a loss here.

 

[Zigner]

maine- ive been to court, had mediation, got the house, but its in her name and she got a restraining order against me, now she will not give up the information so I can pay the mortgage, what should I do? should I file a contempt on her? at a loss here.

Ask your attorney to contact her for the mortgage information.

 

[Just Blue]

maine- ive been to court, had mediation, got the house, but its in her name and she got a restraining order against me, now she will not give up the information so I can pay the mortgage, what should I do? should I file a contempt on her? at a loss here.

Why do you have a RO?

 

[bettsadam]

Ro is because she said I was trying to keep the kids from her so she got a ro to keep them from me. It backfired and during mediation the kids wrote lengthy statements on her.

 

[bettsadam]

I have all the forms except the one from the clerk at the courthouse to file for contempt
Is that the route I should go?

 

[PayrollHRGuy]

It didn't backfire enough to get the RO removed.

 

[Zigner]

Ro is because she said I was trying to keep the kids from her so she got a ro to keep them from me. It backfired and during mediation the kids wrote lengthy statements on her.

Are you serious?!? You had the KIDS right statements about their MOM? That is extremely craptastic. Poor kids.

 

[bettsadam]

Are you serious?!? You had the KIDS right statements about their MOM? That is extremely craptastic. Poor kids.

Actually the court left it up to them if we were not in agreement

 

[bettsadam]

They wanted to stay with me

 

[not2cleverRed]

Your userid better not be identifiable as your real life name. If it is, please request that it be changed to something less identifiable.

 

[Just Blue]

They wanted to stay with me

Why was the RO maintained?

 

[bettsadam]

A friend set this up for me so no my user name is not my real name

 

[bettsadam]

Why was the RO maintained?

Maintained because of spite

 

[PayrollHRGuy]

Maintained because of spite

You had the opportunity to defend yourself against the RO at some point and either you did not or could not.

 

[bettsadam]

Maintained because of spite

30 years married, she did this before when we were 18, I'm 46 now