What is the name of your state?
our child has a minors counsel. I am not sure how to deal w/ her although I feel she very much cares about our child, there are certain things that I am at a loss to know how to do otherwise. For ex i keep in touch with her constantly about info she wants to know. I recnetly sent her a letter detailing info about her activities, school etc adn also told her during our interview. Two days later she calls saying that she 'hardlly knows anything about what's going on' and writes in a report that she still needs more info. I pollitely reminded her 'remember, i sent you the fax wit h all the info...' and she said yes, but i also need all the names of the teachers, their phone numbers, etc. I feel like my life is being audited by the IRS and even when I am totally forthcoming with info, she acts as if she doesnt know much about it. I feel i am bending over backwards to cooperate and be transparent, but she is veyr intense and if i go 10 miles she says, why didnt you go 11, etc. the other thing is that she does not bring up what any concerns she may have in a open and candid manner to me. She asked me a bunch of questions which is fine and I answered all of them. Then my cousin tells me she told him she's a little concerned because I have a quiet and timid personality and wonders if I'm depressed. Why didnt she just come out and ask me that, I would have told her I am an introvert, and have maybe a mild or lowgrade depression, that the court ALREADY looked at recently and the doctor told the court that any depression I may have does not interfere with my parenting. Mostly it is appearances I think, because I am a quiet person who mostly likes to read, talk to a friend, etc. and the minors counsel is the opposite, an extrovert, very high energy type person, rather intense, and to her I seem depressed. I find it frustrating if I am not given her concerns so that I can address them, she asks a person who doesnt know me that well, he doesnt know much about it, and said maybe I am depressed, and she took that to imply that it is some type of problem. I called her and told her that the court ALREADY addressed that issue, but she still wrote about it.
if the court already addressed it, I did what was asked of me, why is the matter being brought up again?
our child has a minors counsel. I am not sure how to deal w/ her although I feel she very much cares about our child, there are certain things that I am at a loss to know how to do otherwise. For ex i keep in touch with her constantly about info she wants to know. I recnetly sent her a letter detailing info about her activities, school etc adn also told her during our interview. Two days later she calls saying that she 'hardlly knows anything about what's going on' and writes in a report that she still needs more info. I pollitely reminded her 'remember, i sent you the fax wit h all the info...' and she said yes, but i also need all the names of the teachers, their phone numbers, etc. I feel like my life is being audited by the IRS and even when I am totally forthcoming with info, she acts as if she doesnt know much about it. I feel i am bending over backwards to cooperate and be transparent, but she is veyr intense and if i go 10 miles she says, why didnt you go 11, etc. the other thing is that she does not bring up what any concerns she may have in a open and candid manner to me. She asked me a bunch of questions which is fine and I answered all of them. Then my cousin tells me she told him she's a little concerned because I have a quiet and timid personality and wonders if I'm depressed. Why didnt she just come out and ask me that, I would have told her I am an introvert, and have maybe a mild or lowgrade depression, that the court ALREADY looked at recently and the doctor told the court that any depression I may have does not interfere with my parenting. Mostly it is appearances I think, because I am a quiet person who mostly likes to read, talk to a friend, etc. and the minors counsel is the opposite, an extrovert, very high energy type person, rather intense, and to her I seem depressed. I find it frustrating if I am not given her concerns so that I can address them, she asks a person who doesnt know me that well, he doesnt know much about it, and said maybe I am depressed, and she took that to imply that it is some type of problem. I called her and told her that the court ALREADY addressed that issue, but she still wrote about it.
if the court already addressed it, I did what was asked of me, why is the matter being brought up again?
