Mental Abuse

[Giogiogio4]

Florida

I have grown up with depression ( documented paperwork )

I dated this woman back in high school. She hurt me til the point I was locked up for trying to kill myself. She used me and put me down and made me feel like crap.

Anyways a few years went by and things were fine. I ended up ( alot of things happened between those times ). We were engaged. for 2 years she lived with me and my family.Things went fine. She got pregnant and used me to pay for the procedure. after this got up without a word and left.

Then for the next few months dragged and blamed it on me. Made me feel like a complete mess. Cuts off conversation and then comes back month after month with her abuse. Its ruining my life. I honestly have never felt so bad about myself. She keeps purposely making me feel like We are going to be together for a few weeks and then changes on me blames me for everything.
Its honestly kissing me inside.

So what can i get done to keep her away from me. I already lost a future child.

 

[Proserpina]

Florida

I have grown up with depression ( documented paperwork )

I dated this woman back in high school. She hurt me til the point I was locked up for trying to kill myself. She used me and put me down and made me feel like crap.

Anyways a few years went by and things were fine. I ended up ( alot of things happened between those times ). We were engaged. for 2 years she lived with me and my family.Things went fine. She got pregnant and used me to pay for the procedure. after this got up without a word and left.

Then for the next few months dragged and blamed it on me. Made me feel like a complete mess. Cuts off conversation and then comes back month after month with her abuse. Its ruining my life. I honestly have never felt so bad about myself. She keeps purposely making me feel like We are going to be together for a few weeks and then changes on me blames me for everything.
Its honestly kissing me inside.

So what can i get done to keep her away from me. I already lost a future child.

Avoid taking her calls.

Avoid contact.

Don't communicate.

 

[Giogiogio4]

I honestly want the money back i was tricked into paying the abortion for. and my engagement ring

 

[Proserpina]

I honestly want the money back i was tricked into paying the abortion for. and my engagement ring

1. Not happening.

2. MAYBE.

Speak to a local attorney.

And honestly? You may want to consider speaking to a counselor. You do need to move on with your life.

 

[Giogiogio4]

1. Not happening.

2. MAYBE.

Speak to a local attorney.

And honestly? You may want to consider speaking to a counselor. You do need to move on with your life.

I have moved on with my life. She keeps coming back in. She makes fake facebook profiles to spy on me. Texts my phone and email. Always comes back like shes changing and whatever and then throws everything in my face. Makes it like everythings my fault. She used me to pay for the abortion so she would have an excuse to go out and sleep with everyone. Within 2 weeks of having it done she screws 2 guys at the same time. ( i didnt know )

She sends me nude photos,Lies to me and my family. We are all sick of it. Im already a wreck because I wanted that child. She used me to pay her medical bills, my family to pay her rent. Got up and left with my ring. And continues to try her stuff.

 

[Proserpina]

I have moved on with my life. She keeps coming back in. She makes fake facebook profiles to spy on me. Texts my phone and email. Always comes back like shes changing and whatever and then throws everything in my face. Makes it like everythings my fault. She used me to pay for the abortion so she would have an excuse to go out and sleep with everyone. Within 2 weeks of having it done she screws 2 guys at the same time. ( i didnt know )

She sends me nude photos,Lies to me and my family. We are all sick of it. Im already a wreck because I wanted that child. She used me to pay her medical bills, my family to pay her rent. Got up and left with my ring. And continues to try her stuff.

Seriously - block her number, or change yours. Change your email address and/or block hers. Set your FB profile to private or delete it entirely and make a new one that she can't find (and trust me, that IS possible).

HELP YOURSELF.

Sue her for the return of the ring if you want. But truly, if you want her out of your life? Forget it. Empower yourself, and don't let her IN your life.

 

[ecmst12]

Seek therapy to help separate yourself from this toxic individual, and thank your lucky stars that you don't have a child with her.