Midwife/ OBGYN

[Rulenumber1]

I am not myself a medical professional, nor am I a lawyer. I am someone who, in both my personal and work lives, have had a great deal of exposure to both.

The relevant question to the doctor is, Can you say with certainty that a episiotomy would have prevented this?

Thank you thank you thank you thank you!!

 

[Rulenumber1]

The answer will most likely be that s/he can't say with absolute certainty.

Thank you so much!!

 

[Rulenumber1]

Thank you thank you thank you thank you!!

She said "with certainty an episiotomy would not have prevented the tear."

She also said that there was no reason for her to be there and the midwife could have done the episiotomy without her. ....

The grandma heard nurses say during the delivery "shes.prob sitting at home sipping her coffee"

The.modwife said she had been paged 2 hrs prior to the birth.

The mother is torn from a scale of 1-4 at a 3 according to the Dr....prob.. means a 4.

She (Dr) said she was a million percent better. I kept my mouth shut but thought then she should be running circles around grandma then.

Wants to see her again next week. I think the mother is going to try to see a different OBGYN.


THANK you ALL so much for helping me help this young mother and grandma!

Also sorry for offending ANYONE!

I may have further questions so if this thread can stay open?

 

[Ohiogal]

She said "with certainty an episiotomy would not have prevented the tear."

She also said that there was no reason for her to be there and the midwife could have done the episiotomy without her. ....

The grandma heard nurses say during the delivery "shes.prob sitting at home sipping her coffee"

The.modwife said she had been paged 2 hrs prior to the birth.

The mother is torn from a scale of 1-4 at a 3 according to the Dr....prob.. means a 4.

She (Dr) said she was a million percent better. I kept my mouth shut but thought then she should be running circles around grandma then.

Wants to see her again next week. I think the mother is going to try to see a different OBGYN.


THANK you ALL so much for helping me help this young mother and grandma!

Also sorry for offending ANYONE!

I may have further questions so if this thread can stay open?

YOU HAVE NO LEGAL STANDING. You keep ignoring that fact. WHY? Because you want to remain ignorant? Yeah... not a great look.

 

[Just Blue]

She said "with certainty an episiotomy would not have prevented the tear."

She also said that there was no reason for her to be there and the midwife could have done the episiotomy without her. ....

The grandma heard nurses say during the delivery "shes.prob sitting at home sipping her coffee"

The.modwife said she had been paged 2 hrs prior to the birth.

The mother is torn from a scale of 1-4 at a 3 according to the Dr....prob.. means a 4.

She (Dr) said she was a million percent better. I kept my mouth shut but thought then she should be running circles around grandma then.

Wants to see her again next week. I think the mother is going to try to see a different OBGYN.


THANK you ALL so much for helping me help this young mother and grandma!

Also sorry for offending ANYONE!

I may have further questions so if this thread can stay open?

Just have the New Mother join and ask her own questions. Thanks...

 

[Rulenumber1]

Just have the New Mother join and ask her own questions. Thanks...

She did today. Last Monday she couldn't..

 

[Rulenumber1]

YOU HAVE NO LEGAL STANDING. You keep ignoring that fact. WHY? Because you want to remain ignorant? Yeah... not a great look.

Sorry not sure what "legal standing" means.

Sorry for my ignorance ... (lack of knowledge)?

I told Grandma to just calm down and breathe! Regardless of legalities her daughter is getting better! Her grandson is healthy!
Also at the end of the day
" money grows on trees... They make it every day in Washington and burn it and don't mean anything unless you can help somebody else who needs it more than what you do"

In other words don't sweat the small stuff and everything is small except for her daughter and our grandson!

 

[stealth2]

her daughter and our grandson!

Huh?

 

[Ohiogal]

Sorry not sure what "legal standing" means.

Sorry for my ignorance ... (lack of knowledge)?

I told Grandma to just calm down and breathe! Regardless of legalities her daughter is getting better! Her grandson is healthy!
Also at the end of the day
" money grows on trees... They make it every day in Washington and burn it and don't mean anything unless you can help somebody else who needs it more than what you do"

In other words don't sweat the small stuff and everything is small except for her daughter and our grandson!

YOUR grandson? No. you have no legal right to know any of this. You have no legal right to be posting any of this or asking advice. Only the mother and father have that right. You are not one of them. Money does not grow on trees. This is not a lottery lawsuit. Mom can't expect to win millions because of this. Mom -- if there are damages that could have been avoided -- may have a case. But most likely not based upon what you have stated.

 

[quincy]

Sorry not sure what "legal standing" means.

Sorry for my ignorance ... (lack of knowledge)?

I told Grandma to just calm down and breathe! When Carlos of legalities her daughter is getting better! Her grandson is healthy!
Also at the end of the day
" money grows on trees... They make it every day in Washington and burn it and don't mean anything unless you can help somebody else who needs it more than what you do"

In other words don't sweat the small stuff and everything is small except for her daughter and our grandson!

Standing is a sufficient stake in a controversy to do something about it legally.

You have not been injured or threatened or harmed so you do not have standing to do anything legally about what happened to your friend's daughter. The daughter could pursue a legal action, however, if facts support an action.

A level 3 year tear could require a lot of stitches but 60 stitches would be highly unusual, even for a more severe level 4 tear.

 

[Rulenumber1]

Huh?

The grandmother and her daughter and her son are all okay!

Huh?

sorry talking and texting.... I did not proofread... her daughter and her grandson are OK

 

[Rulenumber1]

YOUR grandson? No. you have no legal right to know any of this. You have no legal right to be posting any of this or asking advice. Only the mother and father have that right. You are not one of them. Money does not grow on trees. This is not a lottery lawsuit. Mom can't expect to win millions because of this. Mom -- if there are damages that could have been avoided -- may have a case. But most likely not based upon what you have stated.

 

[Just Blue]

She did today. Last Monday she couldn't..

Then she should start her own thread. She is a mother now and an adult. Time to step up and deal with HER issues as an adult.

 

[Just Blue]

Standing is a sufficient stake in a controversy to do something about it legally.

You have not been injured or threatened or harmed so you do not have standing to do anything legally about what happened to your friend's daughter. The daughter could pursue a legal action, however, if facts support an action.

A level 3 year tear could require a lot of stitches but 60 stitches would be highly unusual, even for a more severe level 4 tear.

Unless my theory is correct...