Fathersrightsmilitary
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What is the name of your state? :California
Hello. I separated from my ex in early 2014. At the time I was active duty in the military in a unit that would soon be called overseas and agreed to an every other weekend visitation for our then 3 year old daughter. I believed this to be in her best interest.
Since then, I have relocated to the east coast and am now apart of a unit that does not require deployment. Prior to leaving I contacted the mother asking we together come up with a plan to change custody. As it lies I have 25% I discussed many visitation options. Some of which were located online (custody xchange ect.) Mother refused to anything more than 3 days alone time.
Mother said she insists on flying here and staying local. She would allow me to see my daughter in the for a day or two and then take my daughter back. (I would be responsible for my daughters airfaire.)
The suggestion in laughable. Almost alienating. My now wife called attorneys using a womens prospective (she playing a mom who doesn't feel comfortable with out of state visitation) and every single lawyer told her she could not be that controlling.
Fast forward to mediation. And the mediator agreed with the mother. There is no cases of abuse, police reports, aside from being in training I dont miss days. What is the likelyhood that the court will accept this plan?
Hello. I separated from my ex in early 2014. At the time I was active duty in the military in a unit that would soon be called overseas and agreed to an every other weekend visitation for our then 3 year old daughter. I believed this to be in her best interest.
Since then, I have relocated to the east coast and am now apart of a unit that does not require deployment. Prior to leaving I contacted the mother asking we together come up with a plan to change custody. As it lies I have 25% I discussed many visitation options. Some of which were located online (custody xchange ect.) Mother refused to anything more than 3 days alone time.
Mother said she insists on flying here and staying local. She would allow me to see my daughter in the for a day or two and then take my daughter back. (I would be responsible for my daughters airfaire.)
The suggestion in laughable. Almost alienating. My now wife called attorneys using a womens prospective (she playing a mom who doesn't feel comfortable with out of state visitation) and every single lawyer told her she could not be that controlling.
Fast forward to mediation. And the mediator agreed with the mother. There is no cases of abuse, police reports, aside from being in training I dont miss days. What is the likelyhood that the court will accept this plan?