well well...i BET you didn't tell your husband's co you're pregnant did you? b/c otherwise, you aren't entitled to the paper his LES is printed on...ya know why? b/c the military is SUPPOSED to stick to the whole Bible version of marriage, not an open marriage...THEREFORE, if your husbands command knew you were pregnant by someone else, not only would they be encouraging him to get that divorce, they'd be getting him to do a waiver through dfas(proving infidelity, which you've admitted to, and that waiver grants him a relief of having to give you money of any kind), meaning he ain't gotta give you ANYTHING!
and i wouldn't either...and YES you would be wrong for taking part in his medical NOW. did you know, that if your husband wanted to get particularly nasty, he could request a dna test, and after proving that's not his kid, that tricare can sue you for your prenatal care? yep, i found that out myself, and was able to get my exwife released from tricare(well, at least from recieving routine prenatal care)
especially when i could prove(without dna) the child could not be mine, as she concieved while i was in the middle of the atlantic
...and if your husband is a "good" marine, he'd ask for his bah to be stopped NOW, and send that waiver to dfas accompanying that letter to stop bah...BUT just to let you know, a single marine, e-4 and above, can recieve single bah, as the marines/navy are doing their best to get NCO's out of the barracks...and YOU would not be entitled to his SINGLE bah...
wether you are "immoral" or not, you are 1 of those wives my wife and her friends call a part of the "Housing Mafia"...a group of women, married to men, having OTHER men's children, preying on tricare, and then BITCHING to a CO that her husband "left and won't pay up and now i'm stuck in a free house with free utilities, and i have no money
"...i'm disgusted...
oh hey, if you keep bringing up "open marriage" it translates to the unit as "CONTRACT MARRIAGE" which then constitutes bah FRAUD, tricare FRAUD, a few things...and YOU can be responsible for that debt too