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Star43
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What is the name of your state? MA
Hello to you all. I just found out some devastating news. My own parents are gone, my Moms best friends are like my second family, I have no family left, just my 2 little children.
I have been thinking of them for a few months , especially alot lately so I sent them a Thanksgiving arrangement. Well, today I recieved a letter from my second Mom.
It said that they had experienced a tremendous loss. Their only daughter who was 45, never smoked, was Diagnosed in May with small cell lung cancer. I guess the tumor was inoperable. She went through chemo, radiation. On Oct 30 she passed away after she had been in the hospital for 8 days with side affects and fluid in her lungs. She has 2 small children I grew up with this girl.
What I want to know is this: She hadn't been able to breathe for at least a yr, and was very weak and tired. She went to the hospital, they insisted she had GERD. No Doctor would do any special tests. Well finally in May it was really getting to her, so she went to a different hospital. It was there they did an xray and found out this devastating news. I know the statistics with small cell LC, they are poor. BUT...........if she wasn't misdiagnosed, she may have had longer to live?? or she could of been one of the small percentage of survivors???? How could this happen so quick, she never smoked and otherwise was healthy , only 45.
Do you believe that her husband should do something about this? It just seems that so many are being misdiagnosed.
Please let me know your opinions, they have 2 small children. I'm going to the grave today, her Mom was too devastated to even let me know, and the funeral was last week. This is killing me, the heartache I have for all involved. Thanks for any opinions
Hello to you all. I just found out some devastating news. My own parents are gone, my Moms best friends are like my second family, I have no family left, just my 2 little children.
I have been thinking of them for a few months , especially alot lately so I sent them a Thanksgiving arrangement. Well, today I recieved a letter from my second Mom.
It said that they had experienced a tremendous loss. Their only daughter who was 45, never smoked, was Diagnosed in May with small cell lung cancer. I guess the tumor was inoperable. She went through chemo, radiation. On Oct 30 she passed away after she had been in the hospital for 8 days with side affects and fluid in her lungs. She has 2 small children I grew up with this girl.
What I want to know is this: She hadn't been able to breathe for at least a yr, and was very weak and tired. She went to the hospital, they insisted she had GERD. No Doctor would do any special tests. Well finally in May it was really getting to her, so she went to a different hospital. It was there they did an xray and found out this devastating news. I know the statistics with small cell LC, they are poor. BUT...........if she wasn't misdiagnosed, she may have had longer to live?? or she could of been one of the small percentage of survivors???? How could this happen so quick, she never smoked and otherwise was healthy , only 45.
Do you believe that her husband should do something about this? It just seems that so many are being misdiagnosed.
Please let me know your opinions, they have 2 small children. I'm going to the grave today, her Mom was too devastated to even let me know, and the funeral was last week. This is killing me, the heartache I have for all involved. Thanks for any opinions