What is the name of your state? CA
Miss Met, this is the 2nd part of my reply as your mailbox is full. Hope this is okay to post here.
PART 2 of reply...
As far as our divorce in 10/2002 my ex told me she completed all the paperwork and all I hhad to do was sign, I did NOT want the divorce...losing my children I felt would kill me! It almost has. I foolishly trusted at the time that what she verbally told me was true, I would always be able to see the kids...she would never keep them from me...she would not move them away...it was not about money, etc...all that collapsed and turned in to lies when I decided to move on and not allow her to control my life. I was no longer going to be at her beckon call after our divorce. Too long to explain, but my GF now...we have had so many arguments about how foolish I was...I NEVER read anything, just cried the entire time I sat in the paralegal's office and signed the paperwork. In hindsight, what an idiot I was.
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OK, it is what it like I said, your children will be grown B4 you get tc them but maybe this will be one more contempt 4 her.
That's what my attorney said.
WHO said U had to come in person for orientation
CYS Representative over phone when I immediately called them upon my attorney's instructions after that 4/25 hearing
& U mean your ex decides when you visit, weren't U 2 visit this weekend?
I didn't understand that either, but my attorney said the judge said it is not unreasonable because the boys live with her and she knows all of their schedules. I thought i was to visit with them last Saturday, but the order says when I complete orientation she needs to give my attorney 2 weeks notice of the May visit, which now puts us as late as May 27th, although I am free any Saturday this month. I just found out by all basketball coaches that they are all free 5/13 and 3 of the 4 free on 5/27. I'm sure she will either try to schedule 5/20 when only 1 of the 4 can make it or not schedule at all. ??? Another interesting thing is CYS is now saying my ex must complete an orientation prior to my first visit. Apparently the one she completed last July is no longer valid as it is too old and nothing was ever done since then. I am certain she will delay again. I hope my attorney was right and REAL contempt can be addressed...as if all the other contempt was not real.
Ur atty agreed 2 all of this? When they transfred the case b4 she paid the fee u should have notified riverside & transferred it back.[/QUOTE]
I did notify Riverside. I actually called from Fresno court house with the clerk in Fresno right there trying to determine what action was best. Riverside said it was out of their jurisdiction because all that was left unpaid for was $3 and that was it. I either had to pay it or it would be in limbo and no courts would take responsibility for it. That was my understanding
By the way, the new updates on my case history I don't really understand. I'll try to private message you again when you can accept more messages. Thanks!
Miss Met, this is the 2nd part of my reply as your mailbox is full. Hope this is okay to post here.
PART 2 of reply...
As far as our divorce in 10/2002 my ex told me she completed all the paperwork and all I hhad to do was sign, I did NOT want the divorce...losing my children I felt would kill me! It almost has. I foolishly trusted at the time that what she verbally told me was true, I would always be able to see the kids...she would never keep them from me...she would not move them away...it was not about money, etc...all that collapsed and turned in to lies when I decided to move on and not allow her to control my life. I was no longer going to be at her beckon call after our divorce. Too long to explain, but my GF now...we have had so many arguments about how foolish I was...I NEVER read anything, just cried the entire time I sat in the paralegal's office and signed the paperwork. In hindsight, what an idiot I was.
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OK, it is what it like I said, your children will be grown B4 you get tc them but maybe this will be one more contempt 4 her.
That's what my attorney said.
WHO said U had to come in person for orientation
CYS Representative over phone when I immediately called them upon my attorney's instructions after that 4/25 hearing
& U mean your ex decides when you visit, weren't U 2 visit this weekend?
I didn't understand that either, but my attorney said the judge said it is not unreasonable because the boys live with her and she knows all of their schedules. I thought i was to visit with them last Saturday, but the order says when I complete orientation she needs to give my attorney 2 weeks notice of the May visit, which now puts us as late as May 27th, although I am free any Saturday this month. I just found out by all basketball coaches that they are all free 5/13 and 3 of the 4 free on 5/27. I'm sure she will either try to schedule 5/20 when only 1 of the 4 can make it or not schedule at all. ??? Another interesting thing is CYS is now saying my ex must complete an orientation prior to my first visit. Apparently the one she completed last July is no longer valid as it is too old and nothing was ever done since then. I am certain she will delay again. I hope my attorney was right and REAL contempt can be addressed...as if all the other contempt was not real.
Ur atty agreed 2 all of this? When they transfred the case b4 she paid the fee u should have notified riverside & transferred it back.[/QUOTE]
I did notify Riverside. I actually called from Fresno court house with the clerk in Fresno right there trying to determine what action was best. Riverside said it was out of their jurisdiction because all that was left unpaid for was $3 and that was it. I either had to pay it or it would be in limbo and no courts would take responsibility for it. That was my understanding
By the way, the new updates on my case history I don't really understand. I'll try to private message you again when you can accept more messages. Thanks!