i'm going to disagree with you on this oneSee, there's your problem. In your quest to have a "do-over" on your court case, you want to rock the boat with kiddo's schooling, even though you acknowledge that the school is perfectly acceptable. In other words, the child's best interest is taking a back seek to your own desires.
i am a physician so i have a lot of schooling and i understand the school is more than how well you do in reading or math
each family has certain values and beliefs and i can't allow a school to dictate those on my family
there are better schools in the area but this one happens to be the closest
within 15 min there is one of the best schools in the whole state
the second child hasn't even started 1st grade and i have been arguing schools with her for more than 1 year
the one thing i learned is what may seem obvious to you as a lawyer may not be as obvious to me
i have compromised, i have taken them to school even though my opinion wasn't heard
i have attended teacher conferences and i even volunteer in the school at times
as a parent i think there is a superior option within 15 min - however even with joint legal i don't know how to get my voice heard
can i just sign them up somewhere else ? what is the answer?
also there is a difference in childs best interest and my own desires and this is relevant to the same case
the children spending 5 nights a week every 2 months with a nanny while i'm down the road and ready and willing is not in their best interest in any way but how do you prove harm ?
isn't it obvious its better to be with dad ?
you can say try to get more time - i did - they said agreement says any time and place mutual agreeable therefor even if i have them more time thats not a significant change
could you imagine how i feel when i drop them off to the mothers house at 7 pm and she's not there and some stranger spends the night with them and gets them ready for school in the morning just because they are doing " fine " academically ?
so even though everyone in the world would agree time with dad is better than time with nanny first you have to prove change in circumstances then you can address parent's parenting ability
deposition documents say she has no problem with the father as a parent and no attempt to discredit him in any way
she simply wants to limit his time because she can
i don't know the law as i mentioned i want to spend more time with my kids
and yes i am grasping at straws and yes i would do anything
the time i am requesting would only limit caregivers time it would not even limit the mothers time