Cash transfers of bank / credit union balances: $1,008.64It sounds like your mom is entitled to the money as ordered in the QDRO, but not the extra stuff...it's your mom's poor financial sense that incurred those fees. But, how much are we talking for those fees? A few hundred dollars tops?
Returned check (past due rent, etc. Spearman House) $2,000.00
DPS Retirement Payments (Jul 2015 – Jul 2016) $6,640.27
USAF Retirement Payments (Jul 2015 – Sep 2016) $10,684.52