My ex girlfriend moved away in 1993. My daughter was 4 years old. I objected to her move, but she said she did no longer want to live in California. I have only seen my daughter two summers the last time being 1998. I didnt establish paternity in 1989 when she was born. Didn't know I had to, my name was on her birth certificate. The mother and I argue about her being raised by another man etc. What can I do? I dont send her any regular support money and she doesnt want me to establish paternity. I am at a loss.