live in New Mexico: have physical custody for 7 years now, 3 kids. Gave 30 days notice to their Mom. She is upset and things are bad. Her character is horrible but she loves the kids. What else do I need to do to move? She has not ever worked. she gave 35 dollars in 7 years to the kids, she is on crack. She lives in a crack house but kids visit her at her Mom's. We are DEFINITELY better parents and that is no problem. We are willing to pay her fare to come visit etc none of that is a problem but what is our next step after we have notified her so we wont be detained?