moving out

[lucygrl25]

What is the name of your state?COLORADO. okay so i am 15 yrs. old i turn 16 in nov. i am getting really sick and tired of my house. well i have been for the last hmmmmm wat 5 yrs. my dads a preacher my mom is a nurse. i am adopted and i have four older brothers. okay so back to what i need help with. okay sooo i have done some bad things in my life nothing too bad. i ran away twice wish i could right now but if i do i could go to juvi cuz the cops told me. hmmmmmm okay so my dad and i get along great. but my mom and i don't see eye to eye about anything. she gets in these big rages and says a bunch of hurtful things to me like how i am scum, the devil, a freak, and a big dissapointment to her and to the god. i mean how does she know tat god hates me? she sometimes hits me but i don't hit back. i mean like just this moring she got really mad at me over the kitchen floor not being sweept so she attacks me kicking me pounching me. not hard enough to make marks. but i just can't take it. when is it okay for me to leave the house without their permission and like i am soon 16 an d i have friends who i can stay with and i am bout to get a job so can i leave? and i know it proble takes a long time to get all the paper work done but would i have to stay at home or can i move out cuz i know my parents won't be to happy. they will treat me baddly. not talking ot me unless to yell at me. please i am going crazy. help me. cuz i know tat soon i am gonna d sumthin tat i will regret l8ter. and the sad thing is that i am not a bad person like everybody loves me i go to chruch and ya. okay please help me. thanxs~MATTY~

 

[Wolflmg]

Your still a minor and without your parents permission you can't leave and move into your friends home. Does your father know your mother hits you? Does she leave big marks on your body? Becasue if she it, then that is abuse and she can get into big trouble for that witht he cops and cps. If she is hitting you, you need to tell your father or talk with the school consouler at you school. They deal with these kind of situations.

 

[stephenk]

Wolf, she doesn't want to move in with friends. She plans on moving in with her 27 year old "fiance". read her other posts.

 

[lucygrl25]

things are getting better

hey okay ya things are getting better i talked to my parents and they are starting to listen to me and how i feel and vise versa. anyways my mom really does love me and me love her. she is going through menopause and she is bypolar and can't take any meds. for fear that they could kill her. so we decided that they would sign the emanicpation form at 17 and i will go live with ym oldest brother and his wife and kids and stay with them until i grad or can afford my own place. but while that i happening i will be going to beautyschool. so yup oh and bout the 27 yr. old guy we decided tat its best to spilt come on i am too young and ya i am going out with my borthers bestfriend and my parents are okay with it even though he is 18. its cuz they have pretty much known him during his teen yrs. okay thanks yall for everything,

 

[Wolflmg]

hey okay ya things are getting better i talked to my parents and they are starting to listen to me and how i feel and vise versa. anyways my mom really does love me and me love her. she is going through menopause and she is bypolar and can't take any meds. for fear that they could kill her. so we decided that they would sign the emanicpation form at 17 and i will go live with ym oldest brother and his wife and kids and stay with them until i grad or can afford my own place. but while that i happening i will be going to beautyschool. so yup oh and bout the 27 yr. old guy we decided tat its best to spilt come on i am too young and ya i am going out with my borthers bestfriend and my parents are okay with it even though he is 18. its cuz they have pretty much known him during his teen yrs. okay thanks yall for everything,

One problem with that kido, emancipation means you have to support yourself 100% and live by yourself. If you get emanciapated you cannot live with anyone.