WhitleyS88
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What is the name of your state? Pennsylvania
I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years. I am no longer happy with him, and have expressed my dissatisfaction with the relationship for quite some time.
We moved into an apartment with each other in January of 2011. I decided that I no longer wanted to rent, and wanted to purchase a property. The property I purchased was for sale, and had other interested buyers. Due to time constraints (and me not having enough money at the time), he gifted me the down payment for the home (this is documented). I closed on the home in April of 2019, and agreed to have him move with me. He has no ownership of the property... Although he helps financially, and with home maintenance... He is not a borrower on the mortgage, listed on the title, insurance, or the deed. I am the sole owner of my home and property, and he is well aware of this.
I thought having more space would help our relationship, and it has not. I do not want to continue with the relationship at all. We are not, and haven't been married to one another. He has purchased things for the home. I am willing to let him take these things besides major appliances. There was an old dishwasher that came with the home, and he replaced it with a new one, and put the old one out for trash with out my knowledge. He also got the washer that came with the home - fixed. I don't want anything from him, so he can take everything he paid for (aside from the home appliances and my cat).
I have even considered having him as a roommate, but realized I would be uncomfortable in that scenario as well. He is aware of this, and refuses to move out. There is not lease agreement in place at this time.
Please help!
I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years. I am no longer happy with him, and have expressed my dissatisfaction with the relationship for quite some time.
We moved into an apartment with each other in January of 2011. I decided that I no longer wanted to rent, and wanted to purchase a property. The property I purchased was for sale, and had other interested buyers. Due to time constraints (and me not having enough money at the time), he gifted me the down payment for the home (this is documented). I closed on the home in April of 2019, and agreed to have him move with me. He has no ownership of the property... Although he helps financially, and with home maintenance... He is not a borrower on the mortgage, listed on the title, insurance, or the deed. I am the sole owner of my home and property, and he is well aware of this.
I thought having more space would help our relationship, and it has not. I do not want to continue with the relationship at all. We are not, and haven't been married to one another. He has purchased things for the home. I am willing to let him take these things besides major appliances. There was an old dishwasher that came with the home, and he replaced it with a new one, and put the old one out for trash with out my knowledge. He also got the washer that came with the home - fixed. I don't want anything from him, so he can take everything he paid for (aside from the home appliances and my cat).
I have even considered having him as a roommate, but realized I would be uncomfortable in that scenario as well. He is aware of this, and refuses to move out. There is not lease agreement in place at this time.
Please help!