Jenni_Pooh2
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What is the name of your state? CA
My daughter goes to a middle school (7th & 8th grades). About a month ago we had 3 incidents happen in the same week.
First, on two separate days she came home wearing her gym clothes over her tee-shirt. I asked her why and she told me that "Jesse" had thrown a bottle of water on her shirt, and because it made it see thru she put her gym shirt on. (my daughter is physically mature for only being 12) After my daughter and I talked we dismissed it as to kids playing in the water when it's hot outside as she was not the only one who got all wet.
Then a few days later she came home and to my horror she explained to me that "Jesse" had held her down and wrote "F**K Me" on her stomach. It was with permanent marker, and we had to scrub the skin off the get it off her stomach. I called the school and spoke with the vice principal and he said he would speak to "Jesse's" parents about this.
Moreover, this Jesse kid keeps calling my house and leaving stupid messages on my machine. Typical teen age stuff. He is 14 - in 8th grade.
I don't have his phone number, as it is not listed, or I would call the parents myself. It doesn’t seem that anything was done at school or any displinary actions were taken, as he is in most of my daughter’s classes. I know that school is almost out, but I feel that he should have been punished for the things he has done. I am sure that my daughter is not a perfect little angel, so no, I am not being naive. But he detained my daughter against her will and violated her by writing that on her. Is there anything I can do to be sure this kid understands that these actions are not ok and not to be repeated with anyone else?
My daughter goes to a middle school (7th & 8th grades). About a month ago we had 3 incidents happen in the same week.
First, on two separate days she came home wearing her gym clothes over her tee-shirt. I asked her why and she told me that "Jesse" had thrown a bottle of water on her shirt, and because it made it see thru she put her gym shirt on. (my daughter is physically mature for only being 12) After my daughter and I talked we dismissed it as to kids playing in the water when it's hot outside as she was not the only one who got all wet.
Then a few days later she came home and to my horror she explained to me that "Jesse" had held her down and wrote "F**K Me" on her stomach. It was with permanent marker, and we had to scrub the skin off the get it off her stomach. I called the school and spoke with the vice principal and he said he would speak to "Jesse's" parents about this.
Moreover, this Jesse kid keeps calling my house and leaving stupid messages on my machine. Typical teen age stuff. He is 14 - in 8th grade.
I don't have his phone number, as it is not listed, or I would call the parents myself. It doesn’t seem that anything was done at school or any displinary actions were taken, as he is in most of my daughter’s classes. I know that school is almost out, but I feel that he should have been punished for the things he has done. I am sure that my daughter is not a perfect little angel, so no, I am not being naive. But he detained my daughter against her will and violated her by writing that on her. Is there anything I can do to be sure this kid understands that these actions are not ok and not to be repeated with anyone else?