aliachase2007
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My daughter's dad has now called CPS on me twice for fraudulant charges. Both cases are now closed. I know its him because comments he makes prior (and he doesnt call like he normally does) and this last time a comment my 3 yr old made. Feb he called and told them I was sexually abusing her, when in fact it was a misunderstanding when I let her watch alittle of Good Luck Chuck (which I promtly shut off shortly after it started because of launguage and nudity) He reported I let her watch a pornagraphic movie, and even went so far as to say "We dont know if she (me) recieved sexual gratification from it or not" The CPS workers and detective all feel she was coached, because she never repeated any of the alligations. .
I strongly believe, and the CPS workers pretty much told me it was him. I know I cant prove it was him, I will try this last time because someone reported it to the police and if thats the case then he made a false report to them and they can go after him. These were MALICIOUS allegations because they were % 100 percent false. I dont know how many times she came home from his house bruised and scratched up from playing, but I dont think anything of it because shes a child and is having fun. Because he was angry at me he chose maliciously to call and accuse me of abusing her. The scratches were completly gone in 3 days. The second time, to fraudulanty accuse someone of sexually abusing their child, and not having proof to me is malicous. And to coach her into saying stuff is unacceptable. I know prove is important, but it was him. She told me a week prior to CPS calling that "daddy said you took me to see a dirty movie in the theater" and made comments all week about how daddy said it was a dirty movie.
I also believe he is excluding to add me as a contact person when he brings her to daycare and drs. This is in conclusion to last yr when she went to her fathers for his summer possession. I went a week prior to her attending day care so we could meet the teachers, gave them my license and they told me I could call whenever I wanted to check on her. Following week I called, they were happy to talk to me. 2 weeks later I asked him if I could pick her up from school to have lunch with her, he told me its against school policy, that even he cant pick her up. I called the school to verify that, since he makes it a habit of lying to me, and they told me it wasnt their policy. After hearing who I was they refused to talked to me untill they could verify who I was. Which made no sense to me, until I learned from him that he brought the court order to the school and told them speciafically what the requirements were. Then he accused me of going to the school to pick her up, when in fact that was a lie. And he told me that if it happens again he'd bring me back to court.
She also got injured at his house: nursemaids elbow. I called the dr to verify, and after learning who I was, told me they weren't allowed to give out any information to anyone besides the person who brought her in. I have a court order saying i have the rights to all her medical and educational files. I told both the day care and the Drs office I have the court order. The daycare was fine after I faxed in my license (which they already had a copy of) but that was after days of trying to figure out why they wouldnt talk to me after already telling me it was okay to call. The Drs office is still refusing me, I told him I had the court order and was willing to fax it or bring it to them but they told me its against their policy to give any information to anyone but the person how brought her in.
I am very frustrated and would like to know what my rights are. Thanks in advance!
Even though I dont like him, which he gives me plenty of reasons not to, I have done nothing to him to hurt him or his relationship with our daughter. I understand I may sound like I'm trying to cause touble, when in fact I'm not. I've gone through the past 4+ yrs with him trying to manipulate me into doing what he wants, being accused of being a horrible mother, harrassment, listening to him tell me his parenting is better then mine, not to mention calls to CPS, ect. I seriously dont want to fight with him, I grew up in a single family with my parents fighting and I dont want that for my child. Nor do I think its healthy for her. But he is now bringing her into our disputes by having her lie and stuff. I wish we could all just get along, but since that seems to not be his wish I'd think he'd try to leave her out of our disputes.
My daughter's dad has now called CPS on me twice for fraudulant charges. Both cases are now closed. I know its him because comments he makes prior (and he doesnt call like he normally does) and this last time a comment my 3 yr old made. Feb he called and told them I was sexually abusing her, when in fact it was a misunderstanding when I let her watch alittle of Good Luck Chuck (which I promtly shut off shortly after it started because of launguage and nudity) He reported I let her watch a pornagraphic movie, and even went so far as to say "We dont know if she (me) recieved sexual gratification from it or not" The CPS workers and detective all feel she was coached, because she never repeated any of the alligations. .
I strongly believe, and the CPS workers pretty much told me it was him. I know I cant prove it was him, I will try this last time because someone reported it to the police and if thats the case then he made a false report to them and they can go after him. These were MALICIOUS allegations because they were % 100 percent false. I dont know how many times she came home from his house bruised and scratched up from playing, but I dont think anything of it because shes a child and is having fun. Because he was angry at me he chose maliciously to call and accuse me of abusing her. The scratches were completly gone in 3 days. The second time, to fraudulanty accuse someone of sexually abusing their child, and not having proof to me is malicous. And to coach her into saying stuff is unacceptable. I know prove is important, but it was him. She told me a week prior to CPS calling that "daddy said you took me to see a dirty movie in the theater" and made comments all week about how daddy said it was a dirty movie.
I also believe he is excluding to add me as a contact person when he brings her to daycare and drs. This is in conclusion to last yr when she went to her fathers for his summer possession. I went a week prior to her attending day care so we could meet the teachers, gave them my license and they told me I could call whenever I wanted to check on her. Following week I called, they were happy to talk to me. 2 weeks later I asked him if I could pick her up from school to have lunch with her, he told me its against school policy, that even he cant pick her up. I called the school to verify that, since he makes it a habit of lying to me, and they told me it wasnt their policy. After hearing who I was they refused to talked to me untill they could verify who I was. Which made no sense to me, until I learned from him that he brought the court order to the school and told them speciafically what the requirements were. Then he accused me of going to the school to pick her up, when in fact that was a lie. And he told me that if it happens again he'd bring me back to court.
She also got injured at his house: nursemaids elbow. I called the dr to verify, and after learning who I was, told me they weren't allowed to give out any information to anyone besides the person who brought her in. I have a court order saying i have the rights to all her medical and educational files. I told both the day care and the Drs office I have the court order. The daycare was fine after I faxed in my license (which they already had a copy of) but that was after days of trying to figure out why they wouldnt talk to me after already telling me it was okay to call. The Drs office is still refusing me, I told him I had the court order and was willing to fax it or bring it to them but they told me its against their policy to give any information to anyone but the person how brought her in.
I am very frustrated and would like to know what my rights are. Thanks in advance!
Even though I dont like him, which he gives me plenty of reasons not to, I have done nothing to him to hurt him or his relationship with our daughter. I understand I may sound like I'm trying to cause touble, when in fact I'm not. I've gone through the past 4+ yrs with him trying to manipulate me into doing what he wants, being accused of being a horrible mother, harrassment, listening to him tell me his parenting is better then mine, not to mention calls to CPS, ect. I seriously dont want to fight with him, I grew up in a single family with my parents fighting and I dont want that for my child. Nor do I think its healthy for her. But he is now bringing her into our disputes by having her lie and stuff. I wish we could all just get along, but since that seems to not be his wish I'd think he'd try to leave her out of our disputes.
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