My sympathies to you for having to deal with such a stressful situation. I assume that the death occurred recently, within this year?
There are so many variables with your situation that it's kind of hard to know how to advise you.
(1) CAR
Who has possession of the car right now? Is it going to be sold and the proceeds added to the estate or not sold? Executor will get to decide what happens with it.
(2) EXECUTOR
Did the will specifically name anyone to be the executor? If so, then who did it name? If there is no will, then anyone can file to be "administrator", but if the will specifically names an executor then if the will is produced it is the named executor who must serve. Perhaps it would be in your best interests to trump this spouse by getting her removed as executor so she can't collect a percentage executor's fee from the estate (does she have a criminal background?).
(3) ATTORNEY'S RELUCTANCE TO PROVIDE WILL
Did the attorney give a reason why he will not file the will? We don't know his true motivation--he may be withholding it out of spite because he hasn't been paid for the divorce services, or maybe the spouse doesn't want you to have access to it if she is filing the will herself, or the surviving spouse may not want him to file it and may have bribed him or paid him off or asked him to withhold it and maybe she made some type of secret agreement to pay him off IF she ever receives anything from the estate. Any how you look at it, his behavior is most unethical, and AFTER these probate proceedings are completed and the estate has closed, you need to file a complaint against him with the Florida State Bar Association so that this incident can be put on his record and other future clients will think twice about using him.
An attorney can advise you whether his withholding of the will subjects him to possible legal charges.
(4) STOCK ACCOUNTS
If you haven't already done so, you need to check with the company that is holding the stock accounts to find out for certain whether or not your father filled out any type of beneficiary designation form that would have left this stock to a specific, named beneficiary, in which case it would avoid probate. Since it is being "frozen", there probably was no beneficiary named and therefore the amount is going into his probate estate, but you still need to find out for sure.
If there is a will and the spouse/executor files it, she would need to do so pretty soon and she would be eligible to get the first $20,000 of estate value, with anything over that amount being split between her and the other heirs (but since it doesn't look as if this estate will add up to even that much, the heirs would not receive anything). If the attorney submits his $14,000 bill for payment to the estate and if there are other outstanding bills, then the debts must be deducted, and therefore the estate would be considerably reduced. If the attorney doesn't submit his claim for payment to the estate, I guess the spouse is supposed to split whatever is left with you other heirs, but there is no guarantee that she will do it and so that is why you may need your own attorney to represent your rights in this matter.
I'm wondering if the executor is going to go ahead and falsely claim that there is no will or that it can't be found, so that the estate can be processed as an "intestate" probate (meaning "without a will"), in which case she would be called the "personal representative" or "administrator", since the term executor is used only when there is a will. Under the intestate guidelines, the estate is split equally between the spouse and the other children. (5) HAVE YOU ALREADY CHECKED AT THE COURTHOUSE TO SEE IF THE WILL HAS BEEN FILED OR WHETHER THE PAPERWORK SHE FILED INDICATES THAT THERE IS NO WILL?
(6) FUNERAL EXPENSES--How much was the funeral bill? Whether or not there is a will, the estate IS responsible for paying the bill, so this debt is going to be top priority in getting paid--you will need to submit a claim to the estate to request reimbursement.
This is probably the best outcome that you can hope for in this situation--getting reimbursed for the funeral expenses, and then possibly splitting what is left over after the bills are paid.
If I were you I would seriously consider consulting (AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!!) with a local probate attorney (first consultation is usually free or very inexpensive, but even if you have to pay for 1-2 hours of his/her time, it would be money well spent) in order to figure out the best strategy to challenge/defeat this executor and also how to properly submit the claim for reimbursement.
(7) What date is the first court hearing for this probate matter? If possible you or your attorney needs to at least attending the first probate hearing or file a petition to let the judge know that the will does exist and is perhaps being withheld. Only your attorney can advise you whether it would be in your best interests financially to ask the judge to persuade this attorney to produce the will, or whether the heirs would come out better by having the estate being probated as "intestate" and not producing the will.
Best wishes in getting everything straightened out!! Don't let this greedy spouse get away with everything--throw a few surprises her way to stop her dead in her tracks!!
DANDY DON IN OKLAHOMA (
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