my fiance is 27 and i am 15 almost 16

[lucygrl25]

What is the name of your state? colorado. okay so i am l=in love with a 27 yr. old man is that okay we arn't gonna get married until 18 but my parents can't do anything bout that right once i am 18?

 

[SirNash]

It is not illegal for a 15 y/ol child to be in love with a 27 y/o man. It is, however, pretty stupid and if this guy "loves" you then he needs serious help. So, "NO", I don't believe it's "OK"...it mayby unerstandable why a young girl might have a crush on an older man but that doesn't mean it's Ok.

I'm no expert but at a minimum, it IS illegal for you to have ANY sexual contact with him until, as best as I can tell in your state, you are at least 17 years old and I believe your parents can do a lot to stop this relationship and stop you from seeing each other until you are 18 and out of yoru parent's home.

But you are correct, your parents can't do anything about it legally when you are 18 and living on your own.

 

[cbg]

And if this guy hasn't already flown the coop or gone to jail, one or the other or both, by the time you're 18 it will be a miracle.

 

[stealth2]

But they sure as hell can do something in the intervening years. Like take out restraining orders, etc. And if there is ANY sexual contact (yeah, that can include making out, etc - not just intercourse), they can slam him for indecent contact or whatever your state calls it.

What the hell is a 15yo child doing "engaged", anyway?

 

[SirNash]

But they sure as hell can do something in the intervening years. Like take out restraining orders, etc. And if there is ANY sexual contact (yeah, that can include making out, etc - not just intercourse), they can slam him for indecent contact or whatever your state calls it.

What the hell is a 15yo child doing "engaged", anyway?

Well...keep in mind; we've only heard the 15 year old's version...this guy may not think they are "engaged".

 

[nextwife]

Any nearly thirty year old guy who is hanging out with, or dating a child too young to DRIVE is a real loser who can't get grown up women to date him.

Honed, DUMP this loser and make something of your life. You have YEARS of "growth" scholastically, financially and emotionally BEFORE you should even consider "hgooking up" permanently with anyone. Don't even consider giving up your academic pursuits BEFORE you are financially capable of complete independence and have the eductation to support any children you may someday have. If he dumped you, became disabled, died, etc, you need to be able to carry on and do fine without him. Else you could be trapped in a bad relationship with no options.

Really, no emotionally healthy 27 year old would have anything to do, romantically, with a 15 year old!

 

[TNBSMommy]

And if this guy hasn't already flown the coop or gone to jail, one or the other or both, by the time you're 18 it will be a miracle.

But cbg they are in LOOoovvvee.... and he RESPECTS her. And she is so much more mature than all others... in fact, I'll bet she is THE most mature kid out there! And he will wait for her b/c of how much he Loves her! and they have probably been through SO MUCH together, so much more than any of the boring adults here could EVER understand or know...


OP, did I miss any??
Seriously? I am only 2 years older than your "b/f" and there is no way on God's green Earth I would want anything to do with a 15 year old.....(course I'm female, so maybe that has something to do with it... hmmm...). It is so beyond wrong, and he won't "love" you so much if and when your parents found out and had him thrown in jail and branded a sex offender for the rest of his life

 

[Rushia]

But cbg they are in LOOoovvvee.... and he RESPECTS her. And she is so much more mature than all others... in fact, I'll bet she is THE most mature kid out there! And he will wait for her b/c of how much he Loves her! and they have probably been through SO MUCH together, so much more than any of the boring adults here could EVER understand or know...


OP, did I miss any??
Seriously? I am only 2 years older than your "b/f" and there is no way on God's green Earth I would want anything to do with a 15 year old.....(course I'm female, so maybe that has something to do with it... hmmm...). It is so beyond wrong, and he won't "love" you so much if and when your parents found out and had him thrown in jail and branded a sex offender for the rest of his life

Don't forget she KNOWS she loves him cause she just can't stand being apart from him and misses him SOOOO much when they are not together.

 

[lucygrl25]

thanks

okay half of yall sound like u are mocking me. tats kool. anywaz yeah he proposed to me so i think he would know but i said no when he gave me a ring. i mean i wanted to but really come on wat healthy 27 yr. guy would want a 15 yr. old grl. anywaz i thought i loved him but it was just a crush and i decided its best for him not to go to jail or me being kicked out of my house. so we split and i got to say that i am not sad. i decided to date ppl who are close to my age like from 15-18 tats all right now i am dating an 18 yr. old with my parents premission and things are going great.

 

[HomeGuru]

okay half of yall sound like u are mocking me. tats kool. anywaz yeah he proposed to me so i think he would know but i said no when he gave me a ring. i mean i wanted to but really come on wat healthy 27 yr. guy would want a 15 yr. old grl. anywaz i thought i loved him but it was just a crush and i decided its best for him not to go to jail or me being kicked out of my house. so we split and i got to say that i am not sad. i decided to date ppl who are close to my age like from 15-18 tats all right now i am dating an 18 yr. old with my parents premission and things are going great.

**A: that's great. Now stay in school.

 

[stealth2]

Now stay in school.

Without a doubt.

 

[Just Blue]

okay half of yall sound like u are mocking me. tats kool. anywaz yeah he proposed to me so i think he would know but i said no when he gave me a ring. i mean i wanted to but really come on wat healthy 27 yr. guy would want a 15 yr. old grl. anywaz i thought i loved him but it was just a crush and i decided its best for him not to go to jail or me being kicked out of my house. so we split and i got to say that i am not sad. i decided to date ppl who are close to my age like from 15-18 tats all right now i am dating an 18 yr. old with my parents premission and things are going great.

Okay! Let me see if I'm understanding this ....On 10-10-05 you post that you are in love with a 27 year old man....and now 2 days later you have broken up with this guy and are happily dating a 18 year old with mom and dad's blessing?....Something isn't right ....I think i smell a troll...

 

[AHA]

Okay! Let me see if I'm understanding this ....On 10-10-05 you post that you are in love with a 27 year old man....and now 2 days later you have broken up with this guy and are happily dating a 18 year old with mom and dad's blessing?....Something isn't right ....I think i smell a troll...

Well, if she wants to be "easy" at least she's not sending men to prison because of it.