My Rsponsibility??

[BonnieBlue]

What is the name of your state? Ohio Ok my answer if I all my life did the very best I was capable of, I kept a clean housee, was a GOOD mother, Good wife, cooked, was dutiful, obeyed, did all the things a wife and mother should do. I made bad husband choices because of FEAR, For a 10th grade school educated I di very well, As I child I was raised very stricktly and over protected, no running, no jumping, no yelling, not leaving my yard, any playmates were very carefull selected, no bicycles, no swimming, just lots of reading books, watching tv, playing with my dolls, etc.
Then I obeyed all my husbands and did as I was told. You cant make me feel guilty for being a good wife and mother. As for Fraud, I never had any friends to ask what things they did. I did not know you could not live in someones apartment if they brought you home and said you could. I always lived in private house, I never lived in any apartments, and for my fiend he did not know, because he had never lived with anyone before.
No one told us you had to have permisiion.
If these things are Fraud it is NEW to me??? and I am old and sick, I didnt ask myself to get sick you cant accuse me of that too.
We dont have frinds, never did, we dont visit anyone and no one visits us, we just stay alone together. I dont think that is a crime too.
All I asked you people is how I could keep from losing the few precicious things I still in life, and all of you tried to make me feel like a scum bag, No one has still answered if there is a law stating you residency if you lived about 8 years in an apartment where the leasing managemnt told you that you PASSED there credit check and rules and you could continue to stay? People use alias all the time I did not know that was against the law, will someonme answer that one????

 

[moburkes]

You've got to be kidding me. Can't you go somewhere else with this story?

 

[Ohiogal]

What is the name of your state? Ohio Ok my answer if I all my life did the very best I was capable of, I kept a clean housee, was a GOOD mother, Good wife, cooked, was dutiful, obeyed, did all the things a wife and mother should do. I made bad husband choices because of FEAR, For a 10th grade school educated I di very well, As I child I was raised very stricktly and over protected, no running, no jumping, no yelling, not leaving my yard, any playmates were very carefull selected, no bicycles, no swimming, just lots of reading books, watching tv, playing with my dolls, etc.
Then I obeyed all my husbands and did as I was told. You cant make me feel guilty for being a good wife and mother. As for Fraud, I never had any friends to ask what things they did. I did not know you could not live in someones apartment if they brought you home and said you could. I always lived in private house, I never lived in any apartments, and for my fiend he did not know, because he had never lived with anyone before.
No one told us you had to have permisiion.
If these things are Fraud it is NEW to me??? and I am old and sick, I didnt ask myself to get sick you cant accuse me of that too.
We dont have frinds, never did, we dont visit anyone and no one visits us, we just stay alone together. I dont think that is a crime too.
All I asked you people is how I could keep from losing the few precicious things I still in life, and all of you tried to make me feel like a scum bag, No one has still answered if there is a law stating you residency if you lived about 8 years in an apartment where the leasing managemnt told you that you PASSED there credit check and rules and you could continue to stay? People use alias all the time I did not know that was against the law, will someonme answer that one????

You have been answered. ThERE IS NO LAW OF RESIDENCY IN OHIO FOR STAYING IN AN APARTMENT REGARDLESS OF ANYTHING ELSE. Aliases are not legal to use when you are trying to obtain something that you otherwise may not get by using your real identity. It is fraud when you use a fake name with a social security number that doesn't match said name. You have been answered!

 

[Catherine123]

Shame on you people!!!

The poor woman is crying out for help! and you run her down.
All she wants is to stay where she has lived for years, she is sick and has no where else to go. She said the landlord ran a credit check on her and gave her permission to stay there.
I dont think she intended to do anything wrong. She does not sound too bright, and I think she realy tried hard to do right. Her story is sad, overbearing, too strict husbands, playing on her emotional problems and using her. Now, she is with someone who realy cares I think, and wants to keep her safe and see she has a place to live.
I have have never been homeless, but for a sick elderly woman it would be beyond unbearable. I think we can show some caring and try to come up with solutions to help her.

 

[moburkes]

The poor woman is crying out for help! and you run her down.
All she wants is to stay where she has lived for years, she is sick and has no where else to go. She said the landlord ran a credit check on her and gave her permission to stay there.
I dont think she intended to do anything wrong. She does not sound too bright, and I think she realy tried hard to do right. Her story is sad, overbearing, too strict husbands, playing on her emotional problems and using her. Now, she is with someone who realy cares I think, and wants to keep her safe and see she has a place to live.
I have have never been homeless, but for a sick elderly woman it would be beyond unbearable. I think we can show some caring and try to come up with solutions to help her.

This is a LEGAL advice site. She can call 2-1-1 or the United Way for other solutions to her (many) problems.

 

[queenofsand]

Donning my Dr Phil helmet and marching into battle...

miss catherine, you're pretty bossy in your FIRST post here. You condemned a bunch of people for condemning someone else. I've re-read your post...did I miss your solution for BB's problems?

Welcome! Pot meet kettle.

Anywho...BonnieBlue, let go of the past. Right now. You can't do a thing about it.

Guess what??? You are in charge of today and tomorrow. I'm fairly certain that the 'woe is me plan' has failed.

Wallowing isn't good for you and it certainly turns people off to your situation. Explanations are one thing. EXCUSES are another. What this boils down to is your fear to try something different. You've got to nip the negative thinking in the bud. Don't go there. Period.

It's apparent that you are computer savvy. And it sounds like you can work a phone. People get PAID to do this. You just have to hit "pause" on the pity party and find something. Your sense of entitlement based on the past is warped thinking.

 

[Ohiogal]

The poor woman is crying out for help! and you run her down.
All she wants is to stay where she has lived for years, she is sick and has no where else to go. She said the landlord ran a credit check on her and gave her permission to stay there.
I dont think she intended to do anything wrong. She does not sound too bright, and I think she realy tried hard to do right. Her story is sad, overbearing, too strict husbands, playing on her emotional problems and using her. Now, she is with someone who realy cares I think, and wants to keep her safe and see she has a place to live.
I have have never been homeless, but for a sick elderly woman it would be beyond unbearable. I think we can show some caring and try to come up with solutions to help her.

Catherine you missed her other point where she has been going on for ages about her problems and where she admitted to committing fraud -- A CRIME IN OHIO. She was given the legal advice for Ohio and doesn't like the law so she is whining some more. Before you start criticizing everyone else YOU should sit back and read and find out what's what.

 

[Catherine123]

Advice

Please go to your landlord and explain every thing that they checked your credit report and your first name and your social security number and they told you you passed and could live here. You have been on the lease for years, Now you have government gauranteed check each month coming in for $1000 or more, thats enough to cover a $450 one bedroom apartment. More than enough. Many people never change their social security card name when they remarry if they want it to match their widows survivr benefits social security check and driver licence name in order to cash their check so everything matches. I know my social security card still has my first married name on it, as does my drivers licence so I can cash my checks and everything matches. It has been that way for 21 years and I have remaried and divorced and my name hasnt changed from what it was before my remarrige, now I am back to using the first marriage last name. I get my s.s. check under that name. Also if you are 63 and ill and doing well now on your check why should you put yourself through torture of working when you emotionally arent capable of doing it. Even if your friend should die your S.s. check will be more than enough to cover a $450 rent. If you food stamps and free medical at Cleveland Clinic, they have a low income and charity program you should be covered quite well and they even pay for visits to see a Psychogist, heart doctor, everything. God Bless you

 

[Gadfly]

Oh come now!

So Bonnie Blue your story is that everything that is wrong in your life is someone elses fault? The way your parents raised you? The way your husbands treated you? Horse pooey! You're 61! It's time to grow up and take responsibility.

 

[Ohiogal]

So Bonnie Blue your story is that everything that is wrong in your life is someone elses fault? The way your parents raised you? The way your husbands treated you? Horse pooey! You're 61! It's time to grow up and take responsibility.

Which is what she was told on her other thread which caused her to start this one.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

Please go to your landlord and explain every thing that they checked your credit report and your first name and your social security number and they told you you passed and could live here. You have been on the lease for years, Now you have government gauranteed check each month coming in for $1000 or more, thats enough to cover a $450 one bedroom apartment. More than enough. Many people never change their social security card name when they remarry if they want it to match their widows survivr benefits social security check and driver licence name in order to cash their check so everything matches. I know my social security card still has my first married name on it, as does my drivers licence so I can cash my checks and everything matches. It has been that way for 21 years and I have remaried and divorced and my name hasnt changed from what it was before my remarrige, now I am back to using the first marriage last name. I get my s.s. check under that name. Also if you are 63 and ill and doing well now on your check why should you put yourself through torture of working when you emotionally arent capable of doing it. Even if your friend should die your S.s. check will be more than enough to cover a $450 rent. If you food stamps and free medical at Cleveland Clinic, they have a low income and charity program you should be covered quite well and they even pay for visits to see a Psychogist, heart doctor, everything. God Bless you

which fails to address the issue of her lying to the landlord about her correct name and lying about the fact that the two of them were married.

She has no legal rights to the apartment and can and should be evicted upon his death. Plain and simple. Anything else needs to go to another forum. Might I suggest http://www.howtocommitfraud.com????:rolleyes:

 

[Ohiogal]

which fails to address the issue of her lying to the landlord about her correct name and lying about the fact that the two of them were married.

She has no legal rights to the apartment and can and should be evicted upon his death. Plain and simple. Anything else needs to go to another forum. Might I suggest http://www.howtocommitfraud.com????:rolleyes:

Are you waiting for it -- BB I am sure you are now going to be told how mean you are or harsh or how you JUST DOnt understand!
All us senior members are just horrible people.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

Are you waiting for it -- BB I am sure you are now going to be told how mean you are or harsh or how you JUST DOnt understand!
All us senior members are just horrible people.

And my response will be the same as I give my ex-wife....

BITE ROCKS!!!

 

[harbor lady]

What is the name of your state? Ohio Ok my answer if I all my life did the very best I was capable of, I kept a clean housee, was a GOOD mother, Good wife, cooked, was dutiful, obeyed, did all the things a wife and mother should do. I made bad husband choices because of FEAR, For a 10th grade school educated I di very well, As I child I was raised very stricktly and over protected, no running, no jumping, no yelling, not leaving my yard, any playmates were very carefull selected, no bicycles, no swimming, just lots of reading books, watching tv, playing with my dolls, etc.
Then I obeyed all my husbands and did as I was told. You cant make me feel guilty for being a good wife and mother. As for Fraud, I never had any friends to ask what things they did. I did not know you could not live in someones apartment if they brought you home and said you could. I always lived in private house, I never lived in any apartments, and for my fiend he did not know, because he had never lived with anyone before.
No one told us you had to have permisiion.
If these things are Fraud it is NEW to me??? and I am old and sick, I didnt ask myself to get sick you cant accuse me of that too.
We dont have frinds, never did, we dont visit anyone and no one visits us, we just stay alone together. I dont think that is a crime too.
All I asked you people is how I could keep from losing the few precicious things I still in life, and all of you tried to make me feel like a scum bag, No one has still answered if there is a law stating you residency if you lived about 8 years in an apartment where the leasing managemnt told you that you PASSED there credit check and rules and you could continue to stay? People use alias all the time I did not know that was against the law, will someonme answer that one????

sorry you've had such a hard time getting straight answers and feel judged. your life is your life, i wish you well.
whatever your post was before- i'm wholly ignorant of it, and fraud is a strong word. i'd just assume you didnt mean it, and move along to the real problem at hand.
despite the personal judgements of others, i hope you can see that this site is supposed to be dedicated to legal issues. i'm not skilled in that area, but i can see that your problems have balled up into one huge problem, additionally entangled in legal matters. you come across as emotionally overwhelmed.

think of it as going to the doctors office because you are ill, then talking to the doc about everything else BUT your medical symptoms. you make it hard for the doc to help you. know what i mean?

perhaps the best approach to resolving your legal matter, and enabling yourself to focus on what is in your best interest, is by getting counseling from a county social worker specializing in senior issues. the services are free, whatever resources available for you can be discovered, and realistic life choices can be made.
blessings to you and yours.