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Where we live is a small rural community that does not have the problems you listed. I do not want him attending this school because where we live, children attending schools like that are ostracized from the rest of the children in the community because they are looked at as different. I have no problems with religous or private schools in general, however, this certain institution is run by an extreme fundamentalist group that teaches ideas and values that I find outrageous. For example, my son, 6 years old and in first grade, told me upon one of our recent visitations that my mother, his grandmother, was going to go to hell because she was part of the devil. When I asked him where he got this idea, he said that his teacher told him that those who do not go to church will go to hell and they are part of the devil. That ideolgy is way too much for a 6 year old to be taught. And I just do not agree with it. What is in the best interest for my child is to grow up in society with the same opportunities as other children. Not to be labeled as weird or not to be able to participate in activities that other children participate in. He cannot be involved in sports, he cannot listen to non-secular music, he cannot watch TV, etc. Don't get me wrong, I am not too fond of what TV, music, and sports have to offer these days. I do believe that to restrict a 6 year old from those opportunities and limit his exposure to what is the culture of the world around him, will only make it harder for him to be part of society and harder for him to learn to socialize with the majority of those around him. But, maybe I am wrong.