What is the name of your state? Maine
Okay well here goes. About 9 months ago my ex girlfriend stopped me from seeing my son, I signed acknoledgement of paternity and birth certificate so she really had no right to do so. I proceeded to get a lawyer and then she filed a restraining order against me. Well the judge threw that out and surprisingly she agreed to half time with me in mediation. Now when she stopped me from seeing him, we were living apart and trying to reconcile, she thought that I was talking to women on the interent and that is why she stopped letting me see him. Fast Forward to the present, for the last 3 months she kept trying to get back together with me, trying to get me to kiss her when we exchanged my son. Asking me if I wanted to work things out etc. etc. I told her each and every time that it wouldnt work and that I just wanted to be friends. Well tonight I went over to see my son and drop of some medicine, again she asked me to kiss her and said "lets get back together, we have such a beautiful son". I said what I always do, I was trying to be nice because as you can tell, she is a bit erratic. Next thing she tells me that she cheated on me while I was out of town with her ex boyfriend (we had numerous arguments about him and its one of the reasons we first split). She now says she wants me to take a paternity test, I said that if I was court ordered I would but not voluntarily. I love this kid with all my heart, I stayed in Maine because of him instead of returning home when I got out of the Air Force. I fought for him when she stopped me from seeing him and won. I asked her why she didnt bring that up in court and she said she didnt want to hurt my feelings. I asked her why she would do that to her son if she didnt know for sure and her response was "well he wont remember you anyways"! He is 18 months old, can you believe that! Then she proceeded to ask me to leave or she would call 911. I never once raised my voice or got angry with her. I just wanted to know why she kept asking to get back together if she knew this all along and she said she just wanted to see what I would say. Now I know she is probably trying to hurt me and get a reaction to use against me but it isnt going to happen. My question is, should I go back to my lawyer or just wait and see what she does. Im a bit concerned about her mental stability at this point. She also has two daughters from a previous message and laid all of this on me in front of them. Sorry for the long post but it was either write this or go crazy! Im not saying I was ever perfect and I have done things but that was all in the past. I never hit her or anything like that, we just argued a lot. To be truthfull, I dont doubt that she cheated on me but I just dont want to lose my son. This person whom she claims could be the father has never asked her to have a paternity so again I think she is just talking out her a$$!
Okay well here goes. About 9 months ago my ex girlfriend stopped me from seeing my son, I signed acknoledgement of paternity and birth certificate so she really had no right to do so. I proceeded to get a lawyer and then she filed a restraining order against me. Well the judge threw that out and surprisingly she agreed to half time with me in mediation. Now when she stopped me from seeing him, we were living apart and trying to reconcile, she thought that I was talking to women on the interent and that is why she stopped letting me see him. Fast Forward to the present, for the last 3 months she kept trying to get back together with me, trying to get me to kiss her when we exchanged my son. Asking me if I wanted to work things out etc. etc. I told her each and every time that it wouldnt work and that I just wanted to be friends. Well tonight I went over to see my son and drop of some medicine, again she asked me to kiss her and said "lets get back together, we have such a beautiful son". I said what I always do, I was trying to be nice because as you can tell, she is a bit erratic. Next thing she tells me that she cheated on me while I was out of town with her ex boyfriend (we had numerous arguments about him and its one of the reasons we first split). She now says she wants me to take a paternity test, I said that if I was court ordered I would but not voluntarily. I love this kid with all my heart, I stayed in Maine because of him instead of returning home when I got out of the Air Force. I fought for him when she stopped me from seeing him and won. I asked her why she didnt bring that up in court and she said she didnt want to hurt my feelings. I asked her why she would do that to her son if she didnt know for sure and her response was "well he wont remember you anyways"! He is 18 months old, can you believe that! Then she proceeded to ask me to leave or she would call 911. I never once raised my voice or got angry with her. I just wanted to know why she kept asking to get back together if she knew this all along and she said she just wanted to see what I would say. Now I know she is probably trying to hurt me and get a reaction to use against me but it isnt going to happen. My question is, should I go back to my lawyer or just wait and see what she does. Im a bit concerned about her mental stability at this point. She also has two daughters from a previous message and laid all of this on me in front of them. Sorry for the long post but it was either write this or go crazy! Im not saying I was ever perfect and I have done things but that was all in the past. I never hit her or anything like that, we just argued a lot. To be truthfull, I dont doubt that she cheated on me but I just dont want to lose my son. This person whom she claims could be the father has never asked her to have a paternity so again I think she is just talking out her a$$!
