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AloneInCali

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I live in California. I am currently renting a house from my Ex's father. (I moved in on April of last year.) Which is my son's grandfather. When I moved in (at the request of my son's grandfather) I was informed that the heater did not work. But I was told repeatedly that it would be repaired as soon as possible. Well, to make a long story short it never was. The hot weather came and it was forgotten. When the weather starting growing colder I call my landlord and asked if he was going to get it repaired. This was left on his answering service. In Nov. my landlord told me face to face that if I would mind him giving my number to his guy he was going to hire to fix the heater. I told him no problem. No phone call was made to me. So, I withheld the rent. I have read that if I put it into a account that it is completely legal to withhold rent. After about 4 months of me living without heat with my son, my son's grandfather told me he was going to evict me for nonpayment of rent. I called the Health Department and complained about not having heat, also I found traces of mold in one of the bathrooms and a few more things that needed fixing that my landlord hadn't fixed. On the day the Health Department came out I also received a 3 Day Notice. My son's grandfather was really going through with it. I ignored the 3 day notice and about 1 week later received a Summons of unlawful detainer. I had 5 days to answer this and then would go to court. Now all this time I am asking my Ex why he was not getting involved. Why he was allowing his father to evict his son. He told me that his father had the right to and that he agreed with him. When I received the 3 Day noticed I called my landlord and asked him how could he do this to his grandson and he told me it had nothing to do with his grandson. I told him that we are living without heat and he told me if I didn't like it to move. Also my Ex had said this to me. Well, as it stands now my landlord dropped the eviction and gave me a month to vacate. But I am having a hard time finding a new place. My ex told me to get a one bedroom apt. and save to get something larger, but the rents are so high that if I move into a apt. there is no way I will be able to save to move. Also my son is 3 1/2 years old and to put him in a one bedroom apt. would be the crulest act in the world. Also I called my landlord and asked if I paid the back rent could I stay and he told me NO. I am wondering if there is still anything I can do to stop this eviction. I really believe my landlord is doing this to get back at me. One for calling the Health Department because they made him repair the heater and they also have put a hold on his taxes. I believe also for forcing my Ex to take responsiblity for his son by forcing him to take me to court to see his son. I NEED HELP FAST COULD ANYONE GIVE ME ANY ADVICE??????

THANK YOU
ALONE

PS. I would heat the house with the stove and oven so my son was warm. I also had space heaters, so at no time was my son living in a bad situation. I take very good care of my son and would do anything for him. Please do not judge me badly there is alot more to this story but I felt it was long enough. I will answer any questions that are asked of me. HONESTLY!!!!!!
 


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retertoooo

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So this is a custody battle and a cold child is in the middle.

He wants to be irresponsible and you want MONEY from him, or at least a cheap place to stay.

Well what about YOUR parents, cant you move in with them.... and save some money?

This is why lawyers cost so much neither of you care about the child.

You know he is junk yard DAWG so why do you keep petting him?

Get away from this loser and make your life better.
 
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John Bear

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In some states the eviction you got after the the court matter was dropped would be called retaliatory. since you called inspections , IF you feel you must stay contact a local lawyer or legal aide society . To me personally the whole thing sounds bad and maybe youll just have to accept the idea of a 1 br unit and having a hideabed in your living room for your own use and just keep dressers n clothes in the bedroom and let your child have it for himself , you know you often can find smaller buildings that will give you a credit on the rent if you are willing to clean the halls and laundry and help keep the garbage area clean 20 + yrs ago I did that and eventually ended up doing most of the landlords repairs
 
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jlw1000

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Just move. A month is enough time to find a new residence, especially since you haven't paid rent for month's. You should have plenty of money saved up to go elsewhere. Why put your son through more stress and worry.
 
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AloneInCali

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retertoooo said:
So this is a custody battle and a cold child is in the middle.

He wants to be irresponsible and you want MONEY from him, or at least a cheap place to stay.

Well what about YOUR parents, cant you move in with them.... and save some money?

This is why lawyers cost so much neither of you care about the child.

You know he is junk yard DAWG so why do you keep petting him?

Get away from this loser and make your life better.

Retertoooo,

No, this is not a custody battle. I do not want money from him. And I love my son more than anything. That is what I am fighting for. I did try to stay away from him but he took me to court to get visitation with our son. I really do wish I could get him out of our life's. Not so easy to do tho. Trust me I have fought the fight and won just a bit. He does pay child support, but I asked him if I allowed him to stop would he just disappear. No bite. Now he just makes my life misreable. But as I have said I do love my son and yes I have made some really stupid choices in my life, just sometimes life can jump on your back and refuse to leave. One problem I have is I am on a very tight budget. I am on disability and that makes it a bit hard. Do not get me wrong I really don't want to sound as if I am making excuses. I am a fighter and just need a bit of breathing room. Thank you for your help, I really do appreciate it. Bless you.

Alone
 
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AloneInCali

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John Bear said:
In some states the eviction you got after the the court matter was dropped would be called retaliatory. since you called inspections , IF you feel you must stay contact a local lawyer or legal aide society . To me personally the whole thing sounds bad and maybe youll just have to accept the idea of a 1 br unit and having a hideabed in your living room for your own use and just keep dressers n clothes in the bedroom and let your child have it for himself , you know you often can find smaller buildings that will give you a credit on the rent if you are willing to clean the halls and laundry and help keep the garbage area clean 20 + yrs ago I did that and eventually ended up doing most of the landlords repairs

John Bear,

I think that I could fight this and win, but in the end lose. I need to get my son as far away from this house that I can. You are right even if it is a one bedrrom apt. After a few things that happened yesterday when my son's father came to take him for his visit I now realize (better late than never) that I am dealing with insane people. If I were out of here I wouldn't have to put up with them, a fact that I never thought about. I was only thinking that I didn't want to take my son out of a place that he called home. He has been through soooooooooo much and I didn't want to put him through more. But if we stay I now know he will be put through more here. Thank you soooooo much for your words, they have not fallen on deaf ears. Bless you.

Alone
 
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AloneInCali

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jlw1000 said:
Just move. A month is enough time to find a new residence, especially since you haven't paid rent for month's. You should have plenty of money saved up to go elsewhere. Why put your son through more stress and worry.

JLW1000,

I am going to do just that, MOVE. I am on a really fixed budget and most of the money I would have paid to rent is gone. Have found out how much children cost. But you are so right about putting my son through more stress and worry. Staying here is not worth it. My son means much to much to me to stay here. Please wish me luck looking for a place. Bless you for your post.

Alone
 

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