i live in wisconsin, am a single mother with a 4 yr old daughter. in january my daughters father and i went to mediation to get down on paper his visitation schedule...every other weekend and certain holidays. since then, our daughter has told me that they are staying at my ex's girlfriends house, the girlfriend is "taking baths" with my daughter, her father is drinking when she's with him (which was a stipulation in our agreement), she has started having dreams about performing oral sex...she is only 4 years old! I recently took him back to court to get his visitation changed to supervised visits and to get sole custody back. We now have joint custody, with me as the primary custodian. The judge pretty much laughed in my face and decided to send us back to mediation, which I know will do no good. Our daughter has just recently started throwing a fit everytime she knows that her dad is coming to get her...it breaks my heart to send her with him, but I'm in fear of going to jail for breaking the law. What can I do about this "inconsiderate" judge and what will happen to me if I don't send our daughter with him?