WyattJ said:
Some people are different on rasing their children. Some children do grow up to be bad, some grow up to be good - not because of what mommy says about daddy...or maybe I am wrong.
(Don’t give me that poor pitty me liberal B.S. The poster has already been caught in her LIES. There is NO TELLING what she has already done to this child. But that’s okay with YOU right, she can dismiss it as being STUPID!!!! It was a MISTAKE, bull****, it was something she did to make the child hate her father & love her more.)
***You couldn't be more wrong. Unlike some people I got to know this women thank you. I know more then you will ever know!
Statistics and my own experience both say you are wrong. Three sons, one stays with the mother, two are cohersed to move in with the father. The father is a manipulative lying dipwad. The one child grew up, owns a business with his wife, has a nice truck and owns a house in a very nice extention of our large city and is very polite. I see him periodically as he lives close to me. He dropped by Saturday morning to pick up a CD and to say HI to his little brother. The two drop out of school two years after moving in with the father and have been in and out of trouble with the law since they started living with the father. Who, by the way hides what they have stolen at times and bails these two out every time teaching them what has happened to them in the eyes of the law is wrong.
He is now going after the fourth child. It all starts innocently enough with what mommy is doing is wrong in regards to education, blah blah, sparing details, if you are morbidly curious enough, email me
[email protected] I would love any help I can get in order to stop the insanity.
Some grow up good, some bad and it IS environmentally influenced by what parents say about each other to the children as well as other factors. What happens between divorced/separated parents is controllable. What I saw in this situation is partly why I left the father. The control people try to gain over one another through children is sick. That's all we have seen here. I'm happy that you have gotten to know this poster beyond what we see here, have fun, good luck.