Need some advice

[jenn82lancemade]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Louisiana
My fiancée is going through a really nasty divorce. His soon to be ex-wife in two weeks wants to 1st take away 50/50 custody that they both agreed upon last August because both lived here in the same school district, for some reason the friend of the soon to be ex wife kicked her out due to her lifestyle as a lesbian and the friend didn't want her daughter being exposed to that type of lifestyle. So the soon to be ex wife moved back home to her mother's house which is the next school district over. Last school year the ex wife let the minor child finish school at the school here where the father resides. But some time last week the ex wife came drop the minor child out of the school here and registered her in a school district that she may not even suppose to be in because ex wife is under the impression that she is going to win the house that was purchased during the marriage. But my fiancée has told her on numerous occasions that he can't no longer afford the house and has been five months behind on the home. And that the home can go into foreclosure any day since the bank was out by the house a week ago taking pictures of it's condition. he told her if she wanted the house she need to go have the house refinanced into her name but she refuses and his attorney has also advised her attorney that the house was going into foreclosure but her attorney has ignored his attorney flat out and allowed her to register the child at the school near the house. and she took the child out of the school out here with out the father's knowledge and I'm saying this because back on August 27th no one was named primary parent and in order to do such a move like remove a child out of a school she was already enrolled in she and my fiancée had to agree on this move. How was she able to remove the child from the school out here. Because with the 50/50 still in placed he will not beable to get the child to and from school in the other school district and he can't depend on me because I have to be here at my house to get my kids on the bus and off the bus. I can't leave my children unattended while I bring his child to school in another school district 15-20 minutes away. If I was to do that and my ex husband passes in front my house and sees my kids outside and I'm not there I can lose my children and I'm not willing to do that, and fiancée understands that completely and he can't do it cause he has to be at work at 6:30 in the morning. we don't know what to do. because the mother is using her reason for pulling the child out of the school out here is because she can't drive due to a her disability with her knees but we have pictures of her walking all over town here on the weeks she doesn't have the minor child and we have pictures of climbing scaffolds and painting barns and carrying around 5 1gallon paint cans at one time. When last year it wasn't problem for her mother or father or one of her brother to bring her to the school out here to pick up the minor child on her visiting week.

 

[Silverplum]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Louisiana
My fiancée is going through a really nasty divorce. His soon to be ex-wife in two weeks wants to 1st take away 50/50 custody that they both agreed upon last August because both lived here in the same school district, for some reason the friend of the soon to be ex wife kicked her out due to her lifestyle as a lesbian and the friend didn't want her daughter being exposed to that type of lifestyle. So the soon to be ex wife moved back home to her mother's house which is the next school district over. Last school year the ex wife let the minor child finish school at the school here where the father resides. But some time last week the ex wife came drop the minor child out of the school here and registered her in a school district that she may not even suppose to be in because ex wife is under the impression that she is going to win the house that was purchased during the marriage. But my fiancée has told her on numerous occasions that he can't no longer afford the house and has been five months behind on the home. And that the home can go into foreclosure any day since the bank was out by the house a week ago taking pictures of it's condition. he told her if she wanted the house she need to go have the house refinanced into her name but she refuses and his attorney has also advised her attorney that the house was going into foreclosure but her attorney has ignored his attorney flat out and allowed her to register the child at the school near the house. and she took the child out of the school out here with out the father's knowledge and I'm saying this because back on August 27th no one was named primary parent and in order to do such a move like remove a child out of a school she was already enrolled in she and my fiancée had to agree on this move. How was she able to remove the child from the school out here. Because with the 50/50 still in placed he will not beable to get the child to and from school in the other school district and he can't depend on me because I have to be here at my house to get my kids on the bus and off the bus. I can't leave my children unattended while I bring his child to school in another school district 15-20 minutes away. If I was to do that and my ex husband passes in front my house and sees my kids outside and I'm not there I can lose my children and I'm not willing to do that, and fiancée understands that completely and he can't do it cause he has to be at work at 6:30 in the morning. we don't know what to do. because the mother is using her reason for pulling the child out of the school out here is because she can't drive due to a her disability with her knees but we have pictures of her walking all over town here on the weeks she doesn't have the minor child and we have pictures of climbing scaffolds and painting barns and carrying around 5 1gallon paint cans at one time. When last year it wasn't problem for her mother or father or one of her brother to bring her to the school out here to pick up the minor child on her visiting week.

You cannot be engaged to a married person.

 

[Ohiogal]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Louisiana
My fiancée is going through a really nasty divorce.

Change this to: your bed buddy, your adulterous lover, the man who has sex with you. YOu cannot be engaged to someone who is already married.

His soon to be ex-wife in two weeks wants to 1st take away 50/50 custody that they both agreed upon last August because both lived here in the same school district, for some reason the friend of the soon to be ex wife kicked her out due to her lifestyle as a lesbian and the friend didn't want her daughter being exposed to that type of lifestyle. So the soon to be ex wife moved back home to her mother's house which is the next school district over. Last school year the ex wife let the minor child finish school at the school here where the father resides. But some time last week the ex wife came drop the minor child out of the school here and registered her in a school district that she may not even suppose to be in because ex wife is under the impression that she is going to win the house that was purchased during the marriage. But my fiancée has told her on numerous occasions that he can't no longer afford the house and has been five months behind on the home. And that the home can go into foreclosure any day since the bank was out by the house a week ago taking pictures of it's condition. he told her if she wanted the house she need to go have the house refinanced into her name but she refuses and his attorney has also advised her attorney that the house was going into foreclosure but her attorney has ignored his attorney flat out and allowed her to register the child at the school near the house.

All of this is none of your business. The fact that he is engaged to you can negatively impact his custody chances.

and she took the child out of the school out here with out the father's knowledge and I'm saying this because back on August 27th no one was named primary parent and in order to do such a move like remove a child out of a school she was already enrolled in she and my fiancée had to agree on this move. How was she able to remove the child from the school out here. Because with the 50/50 still in placed he will not beable to get the child to and from school in the other school district and he can't depend on me because I have to be here at my house to get my kids on the bus and off the bus.

You are not legally involved except as an adulterous lover. You are enabling him to commit adultery.

I can't leave my children unattended while I bring his child to school in another school district 15-20 minutes away.

If I were representing mom that wouldn't be an issue. There would be a no paramour order against dad so quickly it wouldn't be funny. In other words, none of his bed buddies would be around the children during the divorce.

If I was to do that and my ex husband passes in front my house and sees my kids outside and I'm not there I can lose my children and I'm not willing to do that, and fiancée understands that completely and he can't do it cause he has to be at work at 6:30 in the morning. we don't know what to do. because the mother is using her reason for pulling the child out of the school out here is because she can't drive due to a her disability with her knees but we have pictures of her walking all over town here on the weeks she doesn't have the minor child and we have pictures of climbing scaffolds and painting barns and carrying around 5 1gallon paint cans at one time. When last year it wasn't problem for her mother or father or one of her brother to bring her to the school out here to pick up the minor child on her visiting week.

Cupcake, quit living with, having sex with, and being involved with a married man. You aren't helping the situation. Mom may very well be able to change the children's schools. YOU have NOTHING good to contribute to this.

 

[Just Blue]

OP...to add to the ^ post? Quit posting to old threads.

 

[stealth2]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Louisiana
My fiancée is going through a really nasty divorce. His soon to be ex-wife in two weeks wants to 1st take away 50/50 custody that they both agreed upon last August because both lived here in the same school district, for some reason the friend of the soon to be ex wife kicked her out due to her lifestyle as a lesbian and the friend didn't want her daughter being exposed to that type of lifestyle. So the soon to be ex wife moved back home to her mother's house which is the next school district over. Last school year the ex wife let the minor child finish school at the school here where the father resides. But some time last week the ex wife came drop the minor child out of the school here and registered her in a school district that she may not even suppose to be in because ex wife is under the impression that she is going to win the house that was purchased during the marriage. But my fiancée has told her on numerous occasions that he can't no longer afford the house and has been five months behind on the home. And that the home can go into foreclosure any day since the bank was out by the house a week ago taking pictures of it's condition. he told her if she wanted the house she need to go have the house refinanced into her name but she refuses and his attorney has also advised her attorney that the house was going into foreclosure but her attorney has ignored his attorney flat out and allowed her to register the child at the school near the house. and she took the child out of the school out here with out the father's knowledge and I'm saying this because back on August 27th no one was named primary parent and in order to do such a move like remove a child out of a school she was already enrolled in she and my fiancée had to agree on this move. How was she able to remove the child from the school out here. Because with the 50/50 still in placed he will not beable to get the child to and from school in the other school district and he can't depend on me because I have to be here at my house to get my kids on the bus and off the bus. I can't leave my children unattended while I bring his child to school in another school district 15-20 minutes away. If I was to do that and my ex husband passes in front my house and sees my kids outside and I'm not there I can lose my children and I'm not willing to do that, and fiancée understands that completely and he can't do it cause he has to be at work at 6:30 in the morning. we don't know what to do. because the mother is using her reason for pulling the child out of the school out here is because she can't drive due to a her disability with her knees but we have pictures of her walking all over town here on the weeks she doesn't have the minor child and we have pictures of climbing scaffolds and painting barns and carrying around 5 1gallon paint cans at one time. When last year it wasn't problem for her mother or father or one of her brother to bring her to the school out here to pick up the minor child on her visiting week.

This is nearly impossible to read - please add white space.

Other than that? This is none of your business. Take your "man's" bits out of your purse and tell him to call you when he's actually divorced.