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bky7899
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okay...someone please help...
state pa
my fiance and i have been together for 13 mo now. his wife ended their relationship last march by telling him she wanted a divorce and asked him to leave. i had met him after him and his wife had seperated but was not dating him until about a month later when he had moved into his parents house. they do have a 2 year old son together. he has recently went to see an attorney at a family law clinic that now will not represent him for divorce or custody because he makes to much money and doesnt qualify anymore.
she has had her attorney send papers to him about custody and support in which he did not sign. she was very abusive to him during the time they were together. her parental skills have been disgusting. she does not care for his son the way she he needs to be taken care of. she went a year without a telephone and a job so if he needed to find out how his son was he had to show up at her house or call his sons grandmother(her mother). during the last year she has made threats to me, and my fiance.
now i am 7 months pregnant and she seems to be very jealous about this. when she talks to him and other people she makes it seem like he wants nothing to do with his son because we are on the way of making a new family. she has recently went to the local domestic relations office to file for spousal support and child support. she now has a phone and a job. when he calls to ask about his son or to see if we could see him she always makes excuses as to why we cant see him. she says that he cant see him because she doesnt know that we will return him. last week, he wanted to have him for a family b-day party in which she said she would drop him off and never did. he called her all day and she never answered. the next day he receives a call from the police dept about harrasing her. he was not doing so...he just wanted to see his son. she does not deserve his money for spousal support. she would only spend it on stupid stuff like cigarettes and liquor which she is known for doing. he has a meeting tomorrow with his new attorney but needs to come up with a huge amount of money upfront in which he does not have at this time.
she is not fit to have his son. now she says she is filing for a at fault divorce against him because she says he left her and was with another women while they were married. she says the fact that im pregnant is enough evidence.
can anyone help with some legal advice or tell me what the courts will say to this.. will he possibly be able to get full custody of his son? will the court award her full custody of his son?
[Edited by bky7899 on 04-23-2001 at 10:32 AM]
state pa
my fiance and i have been together for 13 mo now. his wife ended their relationship last march by telling him she wanted a divorce and asked him to leave. i had met him after him and his wife had seperated but was not dating him until about a month later when he had moved into his parents house. they do have a 2 year old son together. he has recently went to see an attorney at a family law clinic that now will not represent him for divorce or custody because he makes to much money and doesnt qualify anymore.
she has had her attorney send papers to him about custody and support in which he did not sign. she was very abusive to him during the time they were together. her parental skills have been disgusting. she does not care for his son the way she he needs to be taken care of. she went a year without a telephone and a job so if he needed to find out how his son was he had to show up at her house or call his sons grandmother(her mother). during the last year she has made threats to me, and my fiance.
now i am 7 months pregnant and she seems to be very jealous about this. when she talks to him and other people she makes it seem like he wants nothing to do with his son because we are on the way of making a new family. she has recently went to the local domestic relations office to file for spousal support and child support. she now has a phone and a job. when he calls to ask about his son or to see if we could see him she always makes excuses as to why we cant see him. she says that he cant see him because she doesnt know that we will return him. last week, he wanted to have him for a family b-day party in which she said she would drop him off and never did. he called her all day and she never answered. the next day he receives a call from the police dept about harrasing her. he was not doing so...he just wanted to see his son. she does not deserve his money for spousal support. she would only spend it on stupid stuff like cigarettes and liquor which she is known for doing. he has a meeting tomorrow with his new attorney but needs to come up with a huge amount of money upfront in which he does not have at this time.
she is not fit to have his son. now she says she is filing for a at fault divorce against him because she says he left her and was with another women while they were married. she says the fact that im pregnant is enough evidence.
can anyone help with some legal advice or tell me what the courts will say to this.. will he possibly be able to get full custody of his son? will the court award her full custody of his son?
[Edited by bky7899 on 04-23-2001 at 10:32 AM]