non cohabitation

[billbruce]

What is the name of your state?arkansas
neither party shall co-habit with any other person unless by blood or marriage in the resent of the minor child,nor shall they allow any third parties to co-habit in their residence or place of lodging while the child is present.

this is on the standard visitation schedule. can anyone explain this a little better.I have a girlfriend.how is she suppose to get to kow my son if I can't have him around her.The way this sounds.I have to marry her and then they get to know each other.A friend has invited my son to a birthday party but it sounds like I can't take him.

 

[stealth2]

She can go to a birthday party with you. She can't live with you. Surely she can get to know your son w/o sleeping every night in your bed.

 

[billbruce]

I would never have her stay over night while my son is here.It's just the way I'm reading it and I could be wrong,it sounds like I can't have him around anyone.So what exactly does the word non-cohabitate mean?

 

[stealth2]

Dictionaries are wonderful things.

Main Entry: cohabitate
Part of Speech: verb
Definition: to live together, though not married; cohabit

So NON-cohabitation means you can't LIVE TOGETHER! This really isn't complicated, dude.

But now I'm understanding your visitation problems a bit better. You need a lawyer.

 

[billbruce]

Believe it or not,I have a lawyer,and even with a lawyer I'm still having all these problems.I will be at his office in the norning waiting for him to get there.I always have a hard time getting a hold of him.Thanks for the information.

 

[nextwife]

IT's not that hard. Don't have her live there and don't have her stay over when you have your kid. Got it?

 

[billbruce]

she doesn't live here and she hasn't met my son yet,but she wants to get to know him.I do everything by the book but desite a court order the ex still won't let me see my son.

 

[nextwife]

If she is NOT complying with court ordered visitation FILE contempt.. Every time.