What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? I'm in Illinois. My question is...my father owns a home that has a small amount of money owed on it. He was forced to go to a nursing home. I currently have it up for sale. The nursing home said that i have to give them his SS and his pension. He is approved by medicaid. Now do i pay the bills for the house and hopefully sell it quick or do i let it go into forcloser and give the nursing home his SS and pension. i know what i should do but what do i have to do legally.