Opinions Please

[barrett21]

What is the name of your state? Tn/Ky My husband just recieved a letter from his son's mother's attorney. It said please be advised that his son's mother is having major complications due to her pregnancy and is on bed rest and cannot drive the child even though her husband has always done all the driving, and wants my husband to reschedule some of his weekends with his son. As of right now he has not seen or talked to his son in 40 days due to her summer visitation and how the parenting schedule fell on her weekends before and after her summer time. This weekend is Fathers Day weekend as You all know and is our daughters birthday on Sunday her party is on Saturday is my husband being unreasonable to say that he has to come this weekend? My husband told her he would work out the weekend of June 30 he has summer visitation with the child from July 7-23 he was going to add it to that. THanks

 

[Ohiogal]

What is the name of your state? Tn/Ky My husband just recieved a letter from his son's mother's attorney. It said please be advised that his son's mother is having major complications due to her pregnancy and is on bed rest and cannot drive the child even though her husband has always done all the driving, and wants my husband to reschedule some of his weekends with his son. As of right now he has not seen or talked to his son in 40 days due to her summer visitation and how the parenting schedule fell on her weekends before and after her summer time. This weekend is Fathers Day weekend as You all know and is our daughters birthday on Sunday her party is on Saturday is my husband being unreasonable to say that he has to come this weekend? My husband told her he would work out the weekend of June 30 he has summer visitation with the child from July 7-23 he was going to add it to that. THanks

Why can't your husband offer to do all the driving considering his ex is on bedrest? Granted it is extra for him but it is also called compassion. And why hasn't he picked up the phone and called his son?

 

[misty76]

no

What is the name of your state? Tn/Ky My husband just recieved a letter from his son's mother's attorney. It said please be advised that his son's mother is having major complications due to her pregnancy and is on bed rest and cannot drive the child even though her husband has always done all the driving, and wants my husband to reschedule some of his weekends with his son. As of right now he has not seen or talked to his son in 40 days due to her summer visitation and how the parenting schedule fell on her weekends before and after her summer time. This weekend is Fathers Day weekend as You all know and is our daughters birthday on Sunday her party is on Saturday is my husband being unreasonable to say that he has to come this weekend? My husband told her he would work out the weekend of June 30 he has summer visitation with the child from July 7-23 he was going to add it to that. THanks

No i don't think that it is unreasonable to want to see his daughter.
If she has had her that long then i think it would be fair as long as your husband is willing to go and get his daughter.

 

[stealth2]

No i don't think that it is unreasonable to want to see his daughter.
If she has had her that long then i think it would be fair as long as your husband is willing to go and get his daughter.

Perhaps you'd like to reread the original post.

 

[Zephyr]

What is the name of your state? Tn/Ky My husband just recieved a letter from his son's mother's attorney. It said please be advised that his son's mother is having major complications due to her pregnancy and is on bed rest and cannot drive the child even though her husband has always done all the driving, and wants my husband to reschedule some of his weekends with his son. As of right now he has not seen or talked to his son in 40 days due to her summer visitation and how the parenting schedule fell on her weekends before and after her summer time. This weekend is Fathers Day weekend as You all know and is our daughters birthday on Sunday her party is on Saturday is my husband being unreasonable to say that he has to come this weekend? My husband told her he would work out the weekend of June 30 he has summer visitation with the child from July 7-23 he was going to add it to that. THanks

not unreasonable at all as long as dad works out the transportation so it is not an undue burden on mom, i.e. plan w/ step dad or do all the transpo himself.....

 

[barrett21]

He has not called his son because he is not allowed to call her home due to a restraining order she has. My husband went through this last year when she was pregnant her daughter is 8 months old now. She told the Judge she could not drive due to bed rest but she was told to bad because of all the missed visits and moving to work out something. The thing that really is bothersome though is that she never does the drive her husband does she has done maybe five times in the last year since they moved. We will find out today if they agreed to this weekend and then my husband asked to add his other weekend on with summer which will be better anyways bigger blocks of time seem better. Thanks for the advice.