boggledmind said:
B1tch, I never asked for, nor would I ever want your pity (or armchair advice). I came here for some LEGAL advice.
I think you DID ask for armchair advice. Check out your 1st post . . .
Any thoughts, experiences on the appointements and money issues?
And people like you are just a CNT
All that's missing is you!!
Wow. And you talk to your daughter with that mouth? I hope you are in counseling as well as your children. Your experiences with your ex seem to have created some hostility toward women. (not that it isn't understandable, just that it needs to be addressed, since you are raising children and, hopefully, don't want to convey that hostility to them).
Re the meds - my ex has never paid an uninsured med/dental bill within 30 days. I still submit them, and still do f/u (that's follow up, not the alternative) letters to him; however, I never expect to be paid. Instead, about once a year, or every other year, I file contempt charges against him for the unpaid meds (and usually unpaid cs). I time the filing so that court is scheduled right around Tksgiving or Xmas, and his parents usually pay up so he doesn't spend the hols in jail. Sucks for his parents, I know, but better that he borrows from them than taking from his kids.