out before filing

[SAMFREE]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NY
We have no dependents, just our two selves; is it considered abandonment if I leave without a formality? Must I file for a legal separation in order to protect interests? No physical abuse is involved, just disrespect and brush-off. Tired at 65.
REGARDS,
SAMFREE

 

[Ohiogal]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NY
We have no dependents, just our two selves; is it considered abandonment if I leave without a formality? Must I file for a legal separation in order to protect interests? No physical abuse is involved, just disrespect and brush-off. Tired at 65.
REGARDS,
SAMFREE

You can leave. Depending on how long you have been married, your spouse will be entitled to half your retirement, half the assets and half the debt.