My husband and I are stationed in Germany. His daughter lives in Texas. We have tried to get her to visit by paying for the flight over. But her mother (my husband ex-wife) refuses. She wants one of use to fly back to Texas to pick up my stepdaughter who is 14 years and then fly back with her. We can not afford this nor be able to take the time off. The divorce degress states my husband has every other summer. We have not had her since the summer of '98. How can we make his ex-wife abide by the divorce papers.