She is not legally obligated to notify you when the baby is born...morally? Probably not that either. How will the court know when the baby is born??? You can file in a month or so for paternity/support/visitation. If you are determined to be the father of this child and ex violates the court order you can file for contempt.
Has a court actually ordered something regarding an unborn child? If so, what has the court ordered?
Relax. She'll get to you when she wants child support.
Never do, just try so be nice to her and gives her what she needs. However, last month she cut off all contact with me and tried to have a restraining order put on me. I was able to beat it at the hearing on Jan 2nd
Can't do anything until the baby is born from what my lawyer said.
so...leave her alone. I've had two children and the last thing I would want is to be bothered by an ex during the final weeks of my pregnancy. She doesn't need that stress right now.
You have an attorney...why are you posting here?
I am leaving her alone smarty. Haven't talked to her in over a month.
You DO realize we're all volunteers here, right? We don't appreciate being mouthed off to for nothing. And no one insulted you in any way. I suggest you follow whatever advice your (paid) lawyer provides. You may not even be the father. In which case, she has no need to notify you of anything.
Then why are you asking if the court can order her to notify you when the baby is born? If your lawyer already told you that there is nothing that can be done until the baby is born, then you need to pay attention to your lawyer.
I also think that you need to make note of whatever it was that you did that made her 1) cut off contact with you and 2) file for a restraining order, and never do that again. She may have overreacted to something, but it's still something that you should never do again, whatever it was.
