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Parental Civil Damages - for Son's Shoplifting

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Rossgp62

Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? MN

My son was caught shoplifting (first offense) cold medicine from Walmart (He has a substance abuse problem); total value was about $16. We went to court and he was placed in a diversion program.

I received a letter from a law firm representing Wal-Mart to recover civil damages of $50. However, the letter states: 1) The file has not been personally evaluated by an attorney; and 2) The letter is a settlement offer in order to settle POTENTIAL claims Walmart may have against us, arising from this incident, for a lesser amount before this matter proceeds any further within our office. They reference statutes 604.14 & 540.18.

As the value of what was stole was less than $20, should we hold off and wait to see if Wal-mart will go any further? Or should we just pay the $50 (my son will be actually paying whatever it ends up costing).

Just so you know when I got the call from Walmart about my son, I was the one who requested the police be called and he be charged. He has been through several treatment programs and as a parent they have taught us to quit enabling and to let our son deal with the consequences of his actions. So perhaps Walmart may not charge him at all. I just don't know.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
 


Rossgp62

Junior Member
Thanks For Info

Yes my son will be paying the fine. I attended an excellent support group for Parent's of kids with substance abuse issues. Bottom line...quit enabling and let them deal with the consequences of their choices. However, its hard as I sometimes have to deal with the consequences of HIS choices (i.e. take time off work to take him to court, etc.). I have only 4 more months of this as he'll be 18.
 

DAD09

Registered User
Enabling

Sounds like your on the right track. However kiddo appears to have feelings that he does not want to own. At 18 he will be responsible from a legal point. He will still be in your life. With boundaries spelled out-spend the next 4 months building a foundation allowing son to obtain the gifts of sobriety-if he choses to take those steps at 16, 18 or 40.
 

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