Paxil, when provided through a pharmacy or in sample packs from the doctor, has product information included. A woman taking Paxil should be on birth control; failing to read the product information and use proper birth control does not make the manufacturer liable (they disclosed the potential birth defect problem) and it does not make the physician liable.
If the OB/GYN had told the poster that birth defects were a virtual certainty, would the poster have had an abortion or continued the pregnancy and dealt with whatever birth defect presented?
Taking medication places an enormous responsibility on the person taking the medication to know what the drug is, what it is for, how to take it, and to know the most common side effects and potential dangers such as birth defects.
Anyone competent enough to write the information in the original post of this thread is competent enough to be responsible for properly managing medication regimens.
The child should be fine.
EC