What is the name of your state? NY/IL
My uncle died a month and a half ago. During his lifetime he (unwisely, in my opinion) gave a general POA to a distant cousin, who proceeded to take over his entire estate, took my very sick uncle off to another state, and alienated him from the rest of the family. In attempting to get hold of my uncle's death certificate, I contacted the funeral home which dealt with his body. The manager was initially very helpful, but today told me that he couldn't help me because said distant cousin stormed into his office, waved the POA in his face, and forbade him from cooperatnig with me. Though I told the funeral director that POA's expire upon the death of the person giving them, he still refused to cooperate with me, saying that as this cousin paid the funeral bill (with my uncle's money, but go prove that), he was in this cousin's employ and couldn't go against his wishes.
The POA being used in this manner is clearly improper, especially as it involves a dead man. My question is, is such misuse a felony, misdemeanor or some other suable offense?
My uncle died a month and a half ago. During his lifetime he (unwisely, in my opinion) gave a general POA to a distant cousin, who proceeded to take over his entire estate, took my very sick uncle off to another state, and alienated him from the rest of the family. In attempting to get hold of my uncle's death certificate, I contacted the funeral home which dealt with his body. The manager was initially very helpful, but today told me that he couldn't help me because said distant cousin stormed into his office, waved the POA in his face, and forbade him from cooperatnig with me. Though I told the funeral director that POA's expire upon the death of the person giving them, he still refused to cooperate with me, saying that as this cousin paid the funeral bill (with my uncle's money, but go prove that), he was in this cousin's employ and couldn't go against his wishes.
The POA being used in this manner is clearly improper, especially as it involves a dead man. My question is, is such misuse a felony, misdemeanor or some other suable offense?