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I live in ky and i have been recently divorced, my ex vowed to ruin me in any way that she could... she had my membership revoked at the fitness center her place of work is affiliated with. she has threatened me with bodily harm and even has went as far as saying she knows someone who could have me killed if she gave but the word. all kinds of rumors and untruths had flooded the facility about me ever since i joined the place and yes i even worked for them for a time and was terminated for saying some un-professional things to other workers... yet they seem exempt from being disiplined in doing the same as I had... the facilty manager's (2) of them in the past three years have named me in their staff meetings as being a drug dealer/user... etc... yet they have no proof of any of this, i have never been arrested, held or charged of any crime... period... is this not defamation/liable/slander related... the excuse of the manager now was that i intidate her... and i had yelled at her on an occasion and that i scare her... all of which is ludicris... my ex thought i was seeing someone else and called me and told me not to go back to the facility because she had me kicked out, the president of the hospital, whom she works closly with and has a persnal relationship with made the call and she booasts that she can have him do anything she liked... he is biased on her part... against me... yet when i contacted the center... (i informed a worker that my ex was going to have me kicked out two weeks before she did)... the manager can tell me nothing... just that the president of the hospital made the call to her... my ex says that he can kick anyone out for any reason... even if the reason is as simple as he doesn't like them... she said several people had complaints on me... yet they show me no written confirmation or verbal either way... is there a course of action that i can pursue... all i wish is to be able to work out at the facility... that's it... i don't want to cause anyone any trouble or harm in any way... which is the way i have always been... my ex has told me on several occasions that she would get my membership back... yet has'nt over the past 5 months now... even i have my limit to patients and understanding... i have my answering maching tapes with her makeing threats and saying she'll ruin me etc. etc... she knew she was being taped, can i use them in a court... divorce is a hard thing i understand... yet i feel her actions have been totally vindictive... and her intent is to harm me any and every way she can... please... any advice... i hate to take them to court... but i feel i have a real issue with the hospital fitness center... thank you for the time and for listening