littlesamauri
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? OH
I am the custodial father of a 6 year old. Last time my son went to visit his mom she completely flipped out in front of him, she kicked him, threatened to beat him with a belt, told him he couldn't see his ex step dad anymore, was throwing things all over the house & other things. This is everything that my son told me. She says I have no evidence of this. She is bipolar. I am sick of my kid having less than pleasant visits with his mother because she refuses to be on medication for her illness. She has been locked up in a mental institution 2 times in one year. I have tried to work with her, but it is impossible to work with someone who is in this condition & I definitely do not want to send my kid there anymore. She never asked to see him until I told her he wasn't coming until after we went back to court. He had to ask her if he could come and see her in order to go there & of course there was always an excuse as to why he had to wait until another weekend. Then when I sent him she only spent a day with him, the rest of the weekend he was with other people. But now that I have told her no she is telling me I can't keep her son from her. And she is flipping out. I just want her to get some help before he has to spend another minute alone with her. I told her I am subpeonaing all of her mental health records from when she was locked up & from her psychologist & asking the judge to order her to get treatment. She told me that she would sue me if I subpeonaed her records. She can't sue me can she? I want my kid to see his mom only because he wants to, but not alone under those conditions will I send him there, I don't care if I get into trouble over it. We do have an existing court order. I also want her decision making for him to be taken away because she apparently can't even make decisions for herself. What happens in a situation like this when you break a court order by not sending your child for visitation? Is there anything that can be done to speed things up or make a temporary order for supervised visits so that he can at least see his mom without all of the chaos? This way I don't have to keep him from her for an extreme amount of time until a final court hearing? He wants to see her but I am NOT sending him until this is resolved. Meanwhile he has to suffer too, but I am doing it so that he is safe.
I am the custodial father of a 6 year old. Last time my son went to visit his mom she completely flipped out in front of him, she kicked him, threatened to beat him with a belt, told him he couldn't see his ex step dad anymore, was throwing things all over the house & other things. This is everything that my son told me. She says I have no evidence of this. She is bipolar. I am sick of my kid having less than pleasant visits with his mother because she refuses to be on medication for her illness. She has been locked up in a mental institution 2 times in one year. I have tried to work with her, but it is impossible to work with someone who is in this condition & I definitely do not want to send my kid there anymore. She never asked to see him until I told her he wasn't coming until after we went back to court. He had to ask her if he could come and see her in order to go there & of course there was always an excuse as to why he had to wait until another weekend. Then when I sent him she only spent a day with him, the rest of the weekend he was with other people. But now that I have told her no she is telling me I can't keep her son from her. And she is flipping out. I just want her to get some help before he has to spend another minute alone with her. I told her I am subpeonaing all of her mental health records from when she was locked up & from her psychologist & asking the judge to order her to get treatment. She told me that she would sue me if I subpeonaed her records. She can't sue me can she? I want my kid to see his mom only because he wants to, but not alone under those conditions will I send him there, I don't care if I get into trouble over it. We do have an existing court order. I also want her decision making for him to be taken away because she apparently can't even make decisions for herself. What happens in a situation like this when you break a court order by not sending your child for visitation? Is there anything that can be done to speed things up or make a temporary order for supervised visits so that he can at least see his mom without all of the chaos? This way I don't have to keep him from her for an extreme amount of time until a final court hearing? He wants to see her but I am NOT sending him until this is resolved. Meanwhile he has to suffer too, but I am doing it so that he is safe.
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