newmommy20
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im a young new mom and i desperately need advice
What is the name of your state? florida
I have been in a relationship with my fiancee for 4 1/2 yrs. and we are 7mo. pregnant w/ our 1st child. he recently decided he was scared of fatherhood and left us. i moved back in w/ my mother and he w/ his. I try to do the right thing n invite him to dr. appointments and involve him in all decisions regarding our son. he has not gotten anything for the baby .His mother hates me and kepps putting things in his head she even said to me and him "im not watching it and i hope you miscarry", my mother does not care for him but as christians she loves him and he is welcome to our home whenever he pleases. I told him i would name our son wayne michael III because it means a lot to him. I have had people tell me to protect my son from his instability and in and out attitude i should do everything possible to keep him distant i.e. dont give him his last name, move out of state, hire a lawyer n fight till he quits. I grew up w/ my father running in and out and using my brothers and i and i dont want our son to become this toy that he pays for and plays w/ when he wants and leaves me w/ the hard work of raising him. I desperately want him to be an active part of our boys life but i dont want my son to get hurt. I feel like he is going to be able to pay some $ and take my son on the weekend and play n do all the fun parent things but none of the hard work. What do i do? am i wrong for involving him so much? is there anyhting i can do??
What is the name of your state? florida
I have been in a relationship with my fiancee for 4 1/2 yrs. and we are 7mo. pregnant w/ our 1st child. he recently decided he was scared of fatherhood and left us. i moved back in w/ my mother and he w/ his. I try to do the right thing n invite him to dr. appointments and involve him in all decisions regarding our son. he has not gotten anything for the baby .His mother hates me and kepps putting things in his head she even said to me and him "im not watching it and i hope you miscarry", my mother does not care for him but as christians she loves him and he is welcome to our home whenever he pleases. I told him i would name our son wayne michael III because it means a lot to him. I have had people tell me to protect my son from his instability and in and out attitude i should do everything possible to keep him distant i.e. dont give him his last name, move out of state, hire a lawyer n fight till he quits. I grew up w/ my father running in and out and using my brothers and i and i dont want our son to become this toy that he pays for and plays w/ when he wants and leaves me w/ the hard work of raising him. I desperately want him to be an active part of our boys life but i dont want my son to get hurt. I feel like he is going to be able to pay some $ and take my son on the weekend and play n do all the fun parent things but none of the hard work. What do i do? am i wrong for involving him so much? is there anyhting i can do??
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