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Don't want to make anyone mad by posting this again but I need an opinion if anyone knows anything about this.




I check the CS website for my husband everytime he gets paid to make sure they recieved the money and it has been credited to his ex's account. We do this because he havs been having problems with his ex saying she is not getting a check and then CS said he was $180 behind which he tired to explain to them he was not but they were not hearing it. He paid the $180 and now hello it turns out he has paid over. Go figure.
Anyway when I checked the CS website today to make sure they did get his cs payment this week. This is what it stated:

Your $ 78.46 payment was received on 08/01/2005.
$ 52.30 - Currently this payment has not been applied.
$ 26.16 was credited to the account of Mother's name.

Is this because he has paid over? I know when I tell him he is not going to know what it means and I don't know what to tell him. And I know when his ex gets that check for $26.16 she is going to be calling him wanting to know why she didn't get a full check and threatin to call the cs office again.
 


crystaly

Member
I don't understand what your so worried about??? If he is paying his CS directly to the DCSS or whatever it is called in your state, then who cares what the ex says. She can rant and rave till hell freezes over and theres not a darn thing she can do. If she only receives $26 and calls you, your husband needs to tell her to take it up with the child support agency NOT YOU. If he has over paid (which is likely the case) then she will not receive the rest of the money till it is due to her or you will receive a reimbursment check.
 
What are you doing checking HIS child support allocations on-line? This is between him and the ex. He needs to tell her to contact CSE if she's got issues with receiving the money in a timely fashion. As long as he's making the payments, he is fulfilling the court order. Anything beyond that she needs to take up directly with CSE.
 
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legalcuriosity

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billiewood said:
I check the CS website for my husband everytime he gets paid to make sure they recieved the money and it has been credited to his ex's account. We do this because he havs been having problems with his ex saying she is not getting a check and then CS said he was $180 behind which he tired to explain to them he was not but they were not hearing it. He paid the $180 and now hello it turns out he has paid over. Go figure.
Anyway when I checked the CS website today to make sure they did get his cs payment this week. This is what it stated:

Your $ 78.46 payment was received on 08/01/2005.
$ 52.30 - Currently this payment has not been applied.
$ 26.16 was credited to the account of Mother's name.

Is this because he has paid over? I know when I tell him he is not going to know what it means and I don't know what to tell him. And I know when his ex gets that check for $26.16 she is going to be calling him wanting to know why she didn't get a full check and threatin to call the cs office again.
The next time the ex-wife calls, your husband (or you...it IS your house as well...unless there is language in an order that says you are not to get involved, relay messages, etc.) tell her that "it is NOT his/my responsibility to make the payments. His wages are garnished for that amount. The (whatever they're name is) is responsible for sending you the money. If you don't get it, you are to take it up with them. They dispense the money. Do NOT ever call here again regarding this issue."

And as far as you checking to see...who gives a crap? Good Lord people...she can check it if she wants. Quit making mountains of our a clump of dirt. :rolleyes:
 
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read what I wrote

"she is going to be calling him wanting to know why she didn't get a full check and threatin to call the cs office again."

Thank you LC. For the other 2 read this is what I typed she will be calling "him" not me. I did not say me. I check his status online because HE ask me too because of all the phone calls he gets from her saying she has not gotten a check.

So where it states at this time payment is not applied means he did over pay and that is why they are holding it?
 
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legalcuriosity

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billiewood said:
So where it states at this time payment is not applied means he did over pay and that is why they are holding it?
Most likely it is some sort of "overpayment" and since the order states how much the CP will recieve, they will NOT give her that extra money.

Your hubby should call down to whoever is handling this and ask them to kindly pull their head outta their a**. Well, he could - but if he wanted to get anywhere... ;) If it's an overpayment, then he should ask them to either credit him the $$ back or the next deduction from his check should reflect the overpayment.

But as others have said, tell her to call the CS office. Who cares. It's their problem & if she's not getting the $$, that's not his problem. But your hubby should stay on top of it to make sure they are doing their job right & what they're doing won't wind up screwing him.
 
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Thank you bunches

legalcuriosity said:
Most likely it is some sort of "overpayment" and since the order states how much the CP will recieve, they will NOT give her that extra money.

Your hubby should call down to whoever is handling this and ask them to kindly pull their head outta their a**. Well, he could - but if he wanted to get anywhere... ;) If it's an overpayment, then he should ask them to either credit him the $$ back or the next deduction from his check should reflect the overpayment.

But as others have said, tell her to call the CS office. Who cares. It's their problem & if she's not getting the $$, that's not his problem. But your hubby should stay on top of it to make sure they are doing their job right & what they're doing won't wind up screwing him.


Oh he tells her to call the CS office. He tells her he has no control over it. I told him to start ignoring her phone calls and let her leave a message then if it is something dealing with the kids call her back. If she doesn't leave a message then mostly likely she is calling to complain.
All this problem started when he switched jobs and started getting paid bi-weekly. He went to the cs office and gave them all the info and the re-did the paperwork where the payment was to be recieved bi-weekly thru garnishment. Well then he started getting phones calls from the ex where is my money I have not gotten a check in 2 weeks. Then it was I haven't gotten a check in 1 month. So he told her she need to call and talk to the CS worker. Did she do that no she called me. "Hey does ???? ever plan on paying any more CS" I was like what are you talking about. She said I have not gotten my money he owes me for a whole month. I told her call the cs office the garnish it from his check. She was like oh they do. I thought oh my god where have you been for the last year and a half. She said well they have not sent me my money. I said call them. So she called told them she had not gotten a check for over a month blah blah then my husband got served with papers saying he was in contempt of a court order and was behind $180. I told him not to fight just pay it and see what happens. And sure he enough he over paid. That is why he wanted me to start checking on the website everytime he got paid to make sure CS collection office had recieved his money.

Thanks for your advice.
 
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