Thank you, djdj. After getting nowhere with AT&T on getting the charges removed, I *did* follow the advice from the first link above (the one that tells about the "fraud ring") and filed a complaint with the Federal Communications Commission.
I then telephoned my local service, BellSouth, and explained everything in detail, telling them that we didn't feel liable for those charges and were contesting them. IF there are arbitrators available with BellSouth, I certainly wasn't made aware of it. The contact merely said it was awful, she felt badly, and would mark that particular portion of our billing as "under dispute".
For others that perhaps misunderstand my feelings here, I'd like to try to clarify *one more time*! It is my understanding that if you are in the United States and operate a porn site, you must have a built in firewall that requires PROOF (such as a drivers license number or credit card number) of being age-appropriate/legal for the site. This site is offshore (so they say, some writings claim it is stateside and only the billing appear offshore) and IF it has a disclaimer, I wouldn't know, because AT&T refuses to release the URL of the site (and you *know* they know it, or they wouldn't have posted the page linked above).
My gripe is that they are profiting from this, they are aware of it, they know the numbers (the first lady, Patrice, quickly told me yesterday that it was an adult entertainment number), they know it's a background operation, but they continue to allow the site to bill through them and do nothing about the lacking safety precaution for minors.
Now, I will look into the software that gives you a warning if something "wierd" goes on in the background. Years ago, drug stores sold Playboy and Penthouse, but they had to place them out of reach of the minors. The kids still got their hands on them (what 14-yr old DIDN'T see them or have one or more under their bed???).
My complaint is not that pornography exists (it always has), but that this is a scam sucking in minors who never read fine print, believe everything on the internet is free unless they point-blank ask you for a credit card, and are basically "reading their dad's or big brother's current day-and-age" Playboy. And then the parent is supposed to pay hundreds to thousands of dollars for a scam that goes on in the background that a minor had no clue of?
We have a VERY high technology group of youngsters out there, and placing internet nannies and the like is not my idea of the way to teach them how to use the tools. Instruction, however, is critical. Believe you me, my son has received MORE than his share of adequate instruction after this event.