What is the name of your state? Wisconsin
My fiancee and I cannot afford a lawyer, well I could since I am still a ward under my mother, but I would perfer here first.
*The names have been changed to protect anyone from searching this, including mine.
This started back in 2003 when my fiancée, Chris when he was dating a girl named Stephanie. He was seventeen, she was eighteen. Stephanie was very promiscuous having met her on a few occasions
One night, Stephanie phoned Chris, asking him to come over where she threw him down on the bed.(Chris was a lot smaller than her at the time by at least 50 lbs, she is a heavyset girl.) and tried to rape him. Chris punched her in the nose and left.
After the break up, Stephanie started claiming outrageous things, such as and I quote, “went to go make me tea, drugged me and the next thing I knew, we were having sex.” Chris apparently broke up with her three months later though they were dating for less than three months.
Sybille: How long were you two dating?.
Stephanie : three or four months i believe
Sybille: And that happened after the first month?
Stephanie : we were jsut acting like friends and such second went fast and such then thrid he wanted to break up with cause he did not want to go to prom with me
She has told this claim to countless people, and told me in a conversation that, “o really well guess what its not going to work. I will get my revenge on him soon enough I already talked to my close friend already “ My assumptions are the rumors that are yet to follow, especially with this:
Stephanie : i knew once i got back in wisconsin and he knew about it he would start this **** with me like everyother ex
Sybille: He doesn't know you are back.
Stephanie : hmmm
Stephanie : once he finds out i am back hes gonna flip
Stephanie : if you want you can tell him i have been in wisconsin for a month now and see what he says but i got protection from a friend of mine right now
Stephanie : but if he wants to take revenge on me tell him from me to him to meet me at node on north ave and see what happens
Chris has not contacted Stephanie. It is a long story how I got in contact with her, but all the information she told me was freely given over instant messenger. Chris has not seen her since she graduated, mind you and told me to stay away from her.
Stephanie also blames Chris for her supposed abuse in her future relationships, claiming to be abused and her ex threw her up again a house. Leaving her with a permanent bruise on her back which I have never seen and it claims it “twitches constantly.”
Stephanie confronted Chris a little over than a month ago in person, saying he was calling her a whore though I live with him practically and he has no friends who knows about Stephanie. She claims she heard it through her siblings.
Now a few days ago, when Chris told her to cut this crap out, she told him that it was just his opinion what happened and that her friends told her what was going on. I was right next to him when she said this. Chris said that she slept around in high school, and she promptly hung up on him.
Tonight, I find out from her boyfriend in Ohio that she claims that Chris is calling have having other people call her house and calling her a slut. Then there is one she said that he is giving guys her number and having them call for a good time
Again, not true since I jotted down Stephanie’s number and it is in MY call records on my cell phone, not his. I can even check his call records. I have almost every conversation saved and can e-mail it if anyone needs to review it.
I will admit, I did take a low blow on her looks a few minutes ago after a heated conversation that goes as follows:
Sybille: Wait. So what is Chris doing?
Stephanie : this is her friend she went to bed
Sybille: Has she said anything about her ex boyfriend Chris to you?
Stephanie : she said that he is stressing her out
Sybille: Other way around.
Stephanie : she said bull****
Sybille: I do not know who is calling, but rest assured it is not Chris.
Sybille: We don't have time for pettiness. I'm sorry this is going on, but please do not blame Chris.
Stephanie : she said ok like i care
Sybille: Very well.
Sybille: But realize that this is slander.
Sybille: It is illegal.
Stephanie : she said it is not
Sybille: May I talk to her?
Stephanie : she said she does not want to talk, quote unquote
Stephanie : she said that she does not like the things that chris is spreading
Sybille: To me?
Sybille: Who else does he talk to?
Stephanie : she said who ever he talks to in high school is getting to her bro and sis and they would like him to stop or else, quote unquote
Sybille: The only person Chris even talks to anymore is Will and he's too good of a guy to do anything. All he knows is that Chis and her broke up.
Sybille: I can contest any claim myself in court.
Sybille: Can she?
Stephanie : she said bull ****
Sybille: How so?
Sybille: I would like to see this proven and have names.
Sybille: Otherwise this is just a sad cry for attention.
Sybille: And I am so ****ing sick of it.
Sybille: I'm calling my lawyer.
Sybille: Plain and simple.
Stephanie : she said she is sick of you
Sybille: Because I know she tried to rape a seventeen year old?
Sybille: I have proof, hon.
Sybille: This **** has ruined Chris.
Sybille: And me. You think you know stress. Try seeing your best friend dead. Getting so sick you can barely crawl out of bed in the mornings. True, I dug myself in THAT hole, but as least I am woman and adult enough to admit it.
Sybille: Your twenty, act like it.
Sybille: Take responsibility for your actions like I have been doing since I was fourteen.
Sybille: Slander all the way.
Sybille: I saved every conversation.
Sybille: You even wanted revenge on David.
Sybille: How sad.
Stephanie : she said she did not quote unquote
Sybille: Let me find it.
Sybille: Stephanie : hi
Sybille: Hi.
Stephanie : how are you
Sybille: I'm pretty good, yourself?
Stephanie : depressed
Sybille: Why is that?
Stephanie : my ex is laying guilt trips on me
Sybille: David?
Stephanie : yup
Sybille: That's awful.
Sybille: Is there anything I can do to help?
Sybille: Sorry if it takes me a while to reply, I have the flu.
Stephanie : nah me and a friend of mine are gonna mess with him
Sybille: Nothing has been taken out of the original text.
Sybille: Let Stephanie stand up for herself. She's three years older than me, so why is she afraid of me?
Stephanie : sorry to say this but she does not want to talk to you sorry
Sybille: How sad.
Sybille: Can't stick up for yourself. Please say more than "bull****." In the court of law, it ain't going to help.
Stephanie : sorry her weirds
Sybille: Words*
Stephanie : sorry
Sybille: By the way, she doesn't know German.
Sybille: I asked a simple question which I knew the translations and she got it wrong.
Sybille: I find that offensive.
Sybille: Just wanted to get that out of the way.
Sybille: And weddings aren't hard to plan.
Stephanie : ok ok
Sybille: And please do not say I have been calling you, either.
Stephanie : please
Sybille: Wei heist du?
Sybille: That does that mean?
Sybille: It's basic.
Sybille: No translators.
Sybille: I made a typo on purpose.
Sybille: Back on topic.
Stephanie has signed out. (4/24/2005 12:58 AM)
Any advice? Do I have a case? Right now, Chris is nineteen, Stephanie 20, myself, 17.
My fiancee and I cannot afford a lawyer, well I could since I am still a ward under my mother, but I would perfer here first.
*The names have been changed to protect anyone from searching this, including mine.
This started back in 2003 when my fiancée, Chris when he was dating a girl named Stephanie. He was seventeen, she was eighteen. Stephanie was very promiscuous having met her on a few occasions
One night, Stephanie phoned Chris, asking him to come over where she threw him down on the bed.(Chris was a lot smaller than her at the time by at least 50 lbs, she is a heavyset girl.) and tried to rape him. Chris punched her in the nose and left.
After the break up, Stephanie started claiming outrageous things, such as and I quote, “went to go make me tea, drugged me and the next thing I knew, we were having sex.” Chris apparently broke up with her three months later though they were dating for less than three months.
Sybille: How long were you two dating?.
Stephanie : three or four months i believe
Sybille: And that happened after the first month?
Stephanie : we were jsut acting like friends and such second went fast and such then thrid he wanted to break up with cause he did not want to go to prom with me
She has told this claim to countless people, and told me in a conversation that, “o really well guess what its not going to work. I will get my revenge on him soon enough I already talked to my close friend already “ My assumptions are the rumors that are yet to follow, especially with this:
Stephanie : i knew once i got back in wisconsin and he knew about it he would start this **** with me like everyother ex
Sybille: He doesn't know you are back.
Stephanie : hmmm
Stephanie : once he finds out i am back hes gonna flip
Stephanie : if you want you can tell him i have been in wisconsin for a month now and see what he says but i got protection from a friend of mine right now
Stephanie : but if he wants to take revenge on me tell him from me to him to meet me at node on north ave and see what happens
Chris has not contacted Stephanie. It is a long story how I got in contact with her, but all the information she told me was freely given over instant messenger. Chris has not seen her since she graduated, mind you and told me to stay away from her.
Stephanie also blames Chris for her supposed abuse in her future relationships, claiming to be abused and her ex threw her up again a house. Leaving her with a permanent bruise on her back which I have never seen and it claims it “twitches constantly.”
Stephanie confronted Chris a little over than a month ago in person, saying he was calling her a whore though I live with him practically and he has no friends who knows about Stephanie. She claims she heard it through her siblings.
Now a few days ago, when Chris told her to cut this crap out, she told him that it was just his opinion what happened and that her friends told her what was going on. I was right next to him when she said this. Chris said that she slept around in high school, and she promptly hung up on him.
Tonight, I find out from her boyfriend in Ohio that she claims that Chris is calling have having other people call her house and calling her a slut. Then there is one she said that he is giving guys her number and having them call for a good time
Again, not true since I jotted down Stephanie’s number and it is in MY call records on my cell phone, not his. I can even check his call records. I have almost every conversation saved and can e-mail it if anyone needs to review it.
I will admit, I did take a low blow on her looks a few minutes ago after a heated conversation that goes as follows:
Sybille: Wait. So what is Chris doing?
Stephanie : this is her friend she went to bed
Sybille: Has she said anything about her ex boyfriend Chris to you?
Stephanie : she said that he is stressing her out
Sybille: Other way around.
Stephanie : she said bull****
Sybille: I do not know who is calling, but rest assured it is not Chris.
Sybille: We don't have time for pettiness. I'm sorry this is going on, but please do not blame Chris.
Stephanie : she said ok like i care
Sybille: Very well.
Sybille: But realize that this is slander.
Sybille: It is illegal.
Stephanie : she said it is not
Sybille: May I talk to her?
Stephanie : she said she does not want to talk, quote unquote
Stephanie : she said that she does not like the things that chris is spreading
Sybille: To me?
Sybille: Who else does he talk to?
Stephanie : she said who ever he talks to in high school is getting to her bro and sis and they would like him to stop or else, quote unquote
Sybille: The only person Chris even talks to anymore is Will and he's too good of a guy to do anything. All he knows is that Chis and her broke up.
Sybille: I can contest any claim myself in court.
Sybille: Can she?
Stephanie : she said bull ****
Sybille: How so?
Sybille: I would like to see this proven and have names.
Sybille: Otherwise this is just a sad cry for attention.
Sybille: And I am so ****ing sick of it.
Sybille: I'm calling my lawyer.
Sybille: Plain and simple.
Stephanie : she said she is sick of you
Sybille: Because I know she tried to rape a seventeen year old?
Sybille: I have proof, hon.
Sybille: This **** has ruined Chris.
Sybille: And me. You think you know stress. Try seeing your best friend dead. Getting so sick you can barely crawl out of bed in the mornings. True, I dug myself in THAT hole, but as least I am woman and adult enough to admit it.
Sybille: Your twenty, act like it.
Sybille: Take responsibility for your actions like I have been doing since I was fourteen.
Sybille: Slander all the way.
Sybille: I saved every conversation.
Sybille: You even wanted revenge on David.
Sybille: How sad.
Stephanie : she said she did not quote unquote
Sybille: Let me find it.
Sybille: Stephanie : hi
Sybille: Hi.
Stephanie : how are you
Sybille: I'm pretty good, yourself?
Stephanie : depressed
Sybille: Why is that?
Stephanie : my ex is laying guilt trips on me
Sybille: David?
Stephanie : yup
Sybille: That's awful.
Sybille: Is there anything I can do to help?
Sybille: Sorry if it takes me a while to reply, I have the flu.
Stephanie : nah me and a friend of mine are gonna mess with him
Sybille: Nothing has been taken out of the original text.
Sybille: Let Stephanie stand up for herself. She's three years older than me, so why is she afraid of me?
Stephanie : sorry to say this but she does not want to talk to you sorry
Sybille: How sad.
Sybille: Can't stick up for yourself. Please say more than "bull****." In the court of law, it ain't going to help.
Stephanie : sorry her weirds
Sybille: Words*
Stephanie : sorry
Sybille: By the way, she doesn't know German.
Sybille: I asked a simple question which I knew the translations and she got it wrong.
Sybille: I find that offensive.
Sybille: Just wanted to get that out of the way.
Sybille: And weddings aren't hard to plan.
Stephanie : ok ok
Sybille: And please do not say I have been calling you, either.
Stephanie : please
Sybille: Wei heist du?
Sybille: That does that mean?
Sybille: It's basic.
Sybille: No translators.
Sybille: I made a typo on purpose.
Sybille: Back on topic.
Stephanie has signed out. (4/24/2005 12:58 AM)
Any advice? Do I have a case? Right now, Chris is nineteen, Stephanie 20, myself, 17.