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supergivingmom
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What is the name of your state? Illinois
I am deep in debt. Soon, I will be having minor surg. and undergo medical tests due to illness. I am not behind on a single CC but cannot go through the month without charging again after I've made my payments. I anticipate I may need to file BK before end of 2004 as I cannot continue to juggle my finances, let alone become debt free by paying them off.
I recently withdrew money from my 401K and had a Christmas bonus. I paid off as much as I could of my small balance creditors and will use what's left to subsidize my income till I make my final decision on filing BK. I have quit using the CC's. This cash reserve is $4,000 and in daughter's ckg. acct. I am trying to plan ahead so if I file BK, it can be CH7 and I will have as few complications as possible with the court system.
I rent my apt., and have no assets. I am 60 yrs. old and stressed about trying to plan retirement with this much debt. I only have $14,000 left in my 401K at work.
Debts are:
* 8 CC's with a total balance of: $20,000
* Student Loan (not dischargeable, I know) 4,000
* Car Loan (value 5800) Balance I owe:>>> 7,300
(I want to keep the car and will reaffirm.)
* Best Buy account (purchases at Christmas) 2,500
* My Credit Union Visa account 3,700
My questions have to do with the Best Buy & Credit Union Visa Card accounts.
Best Buy is in my name, for my son's items, purchased at Christmas. Terms of 18 mos/same as cash, no interest. He is making payments direct to Best Buy each month. We are willing to reaffirm these in order to keep these two items he purchased.
Credit Union is for a Visa CC. Nothing secured like a car or anything like that.
QUESITONS:
1) Should I use some of my $4,000 reserve to pay off Best Buy & have my son pay me monthly payments instead. He doesn't want to lose his purchases & I don't want to have to file ch. 13 just because of that account and wanting to keep 2 items.
2) What is cross-collaterization when it comes to credit unions? I've read info but am confused. Is there something I should be looking for in the fine print from when I opened the account? If necessary, I could use my reserve to pay them in full, wait longer to file, keep using the CC's to get by and include Best Buy in the BK and reaffirm my son's purchases. Would that work, and if so, could it still be CH7?
If I were younger, I'd tough this out and pay off everyone. But I
can't handle it anymore. I know I need to wait to file till I know my health problems are done or at least stable.
Comments and guidance are welcome. Thanks in advance.
I am deep in debt. Soon, I will be having minor surg. and undergo medical tests due to illness. I am not behind on a single CC but cannot go through the month without charging again after I've made my payments. I anticipate I may need to file BK before end of 2004 as I cannot continue to juggle my finances, let alone become debt free by paying them off.
I recently withdrew money from my 401K and had a Christmas bonus. I paid off as much as I could of my small balance creditors and will use what's left to subsidize my income till I make my final decision on filing BK. I have quit using the CC's. This cash reserve is $4,000 and in daughter's ckg. acct. I am trying to plan ahead so if I file BK, it can be CH7 and I will have as few complications as possible with the court system.
I rent my apt., and have no assets. I am 60 yrs. old and stressed about trying to plan retirement with this much debt. I only have $14,000 left in my 401K at work.
Debts are:
* 8 CC's with a total balance of: $20,000
* Student Loan (not dischargeable, I know) 4,000
* Car Loan (value 5800) Balance I owe:>>> 7,300
(I want to keep the car and will reaffirm.)
* Best Buy account (purchases at Christmas) 2,500
* My Credit Union Visa account 3,700
My questions have to do with the Best Buy & Credit Union Visa Card accounts.
Best Buy is in my name, for my son's items, purchased at Christmas. Terms of 18 mos/same as cash, no interest. He is making payments direct to Best Buy each month. We are willing to reaffirm these in order to keep these two items he purchased.
Credit Union is for a Visa CC. Nothing secured like a car or anything like that.
QUESITONS:
1) Should I use some of my $4,000 reserve to pay off Best Buy & have my son pay me monthly payments instead. He doesn't want to lose his purchases & I don't want to have to file ch. 13 just because of that account and wanting to keep 2 items.
2) What is cross-collaterization when it comes to credit unions? I've read info but am confused. Is there something I should be looking for in the fine print from when I opened the account? If necessary, I could use my reserve to pay them in full, wait longer to file, keep using the CC's to get by and include Best Buy in the BK and reaffirm my son's purchases. Would that work, and if so, could it still be CH7?
If I were younger, I'd tough this out and pay off everyone. But I
can't handle it anymore. I know I need to wait to file till I know my health problems are done or at least stable.
Comments and guidance are welcome. Thanks in advance.
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