Yes you are being taken advantage of. Immediately send a certified letter to her listing by itemized number, exactly what you want her to do and also state your position. Be sure that you state that the property management agreement is hereby terminated. Send a copy to her principal broker of her former real estate firm, the local Board of Realtors office, the State Real Estate Commission and the BBB.
1) First of all she was supposed to manage the property as an agent of the large RE company.
2) Next as soon as the property management agreement was signed, she was supposed to give you a copy of same AND get your approval and authorization with respect to the conditions of the lease ie. if you accept pets, who pays for utlities, repair and maintenance etc. how much rent the property would rent for and the term of the lease and request your tax ID number for IRS reporting purposes. I would presume an astute agent knowing that you wanted to sell the property would not rent on a 2 year lease basis. Note: the property management agreement is vital so you can deduct management fees as an expense for tax purposes (Schedule E). If you get audited and have no proof of a management relationship, the IRS can disallow said deduction.
3) Next, as soon as the property was rented (say within 7-15 days) this agent was to provide you with a status report to include the cover letter and enclosures such as a copy of the lease agreement, tenant registration and application form, accounting statement indicating amounts the tenant paid in rent, security deposits etc., amount of expenses paid by or owed to manager such as advertising, rental management fee etc., owners check for the rent the tenant paid, owners check for the security deposit the tenant paid or a receipt showing that the agent will safekeep the deposit in a company trust account. Without these documents you have no idea how much rent and deposit the agent collected, if any, how much is due to you, where is the security deposit, when the property was rented etc.
Note: if she is not a real estate broker, then she can not handle the rental but must be working under a real estate broker. If she is a real estate broker, she has violated her fiduciary duties to you, violated her code of ethics and is practicing unfair and deceptive trade practices. In other words, she could lose her real estate license or get sanctioned by the Real Estate Commission. If she is a licensed real estate broker, her former broker would have needed to sign off an agency document in which her real estate principal broker released her from being licensed with the real estate company. Furthermore, all monies collected by this agent regardless of whether it is rent or security deposit, is required to be placed in a separate business account and can not be deposited into her personal acount. I she used her personal account, then she is guilty of commingling of funds, which is another violation. Also if she holds the tenants security deposit said deposit must be placed into a separate business client trust account.
You should check with your State regulatory real estate licensing agency for more information. You can also lookk at the Realtor Code of Ethics at the National Association of Realtors website.
http://www.realtor.com
She is taking advantage of you because you did not know the above information. As you can see, she has been giving you aa bunch of BS all along. Hopefully she did not spend YOUR money for her Christmas shopping.
Lastly, you must make sure that the listing agreement to sell the home is terminated. She may have transferred this agreement or it may still be an active listing with her old company. In any case, you do not want to be dealing with her on anything else.
Please keep me posted.