What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Virginia I have compelling information that indicates my husband of 29 years was unfaithful 15 years ago. Can I petition the courts for a DNA test on a minor to prove the infidelity? Is there any benefit to me in the divorce process in Virginia if I can prove infidelity? I was a full time mother for 15 years and basically have no retirement savings because my husband made three times my income (after I re-entered the work force) and we planned on his 401K to be our retirement nest egg. What portion of that can I depend on? Our martial home is debt free and in both our names - can I depend on 50%? Thank you for any information you can provide.