Qdro not qualifying?!?!

[HUSBANDECTOMY]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? I LIVE IN CALIFORNIA. I RECIEVED A COPY OF LETTER THAT WAS INITIALLY MAILED TO MY EX'S LAWYER (NOT MINE) THAT STATED THE ORDERED QDRO DID NOT QUALIFY UNDER APPLICABLE FEDERAL LAW AND THAT AREAS OF DEFICIENCY WERE REQUIRED TO BE AMENDED OR CLARIFIED AND THERE WAS THREE AREAS. I NO LONGER HAVE MY LAWYER AND I FOLLOWED UP WITH MY EX'S THE RETIREMENT COMPANY PER THE COPY I RECIEVED AND THEY TOLD ME THAT NOTHING HAS BEEN DONE. THE LETTER IS A YEAR OLD NOW AND I THOUGHT MY LAWYER F/U ON THE MATTER WAY BACK WHEN SENT HER A COPY OF MY COPY ETC..AND THE QDRO IS STILL IN LIMBO AT THIS TIME.

MY QUESTION IS...IF THE RETIREMENT COMPANY SENT THE LETTER TO MY EXS LAWYER (BECAUSE ITS HIS LAWYER AND HIS RETIREMENT FUND) AND SHE DID NOTHING TO RESOLVE THE MATTER BY CHANGING THE LANGUAGE , ADDING MY SOCIAL, USING FULL LEGAL NAMES ETC. (THESE WERE THE THREE SIMPLE AREAS TO ADMEND) THEN IS SHE AT FAULT.

ALSO WHAT CAN I DO TO ADMEND THE QDRO SO THAT IT IS IN EFFECT. I NO LONG HAVE MY LAWYER AND I WOULD LIKE TO HANDLE THE ISSUE MY SELF.


PLEASE HELP ME...MY EX DOESNT DESERVE THE HOLIDAY OF NO PAY LOL! HE MARRIED THE WOMAN HE HAD AN AFFAIR ON ME..LAST YEAR..AND DATED HER OUR ENTIRE TWELVE YEAR THREE KID LATER JOKE OF A MARRIAGE. I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE THE HAND OUT .


SINCERLY,
HUSBANDECTOMY

 

[tranquility]

One reason we type like this is because it is easier to read. THIS IS HARD TO READ AND IS WEB-CONSIDERED TO BE THE EQUIVALENT OF SHOUTING.

But, if the court order was incorrect (making it "invalid"), the other attorney can't just "fix" it. It is a court order. I don't think they have the duty to go back to court to get the order changed. Since you want the change, you will need to go back to the original court and move to amend the order. There may be an expedited method if the change is minor and both parties agree so it would be better to first contact the other attorney. (Although he may not talk with you unless you represent you are without an attorney.)

 

[HUSBANDECTOMY]

THANK YOU SOOOOOOO MUCH FOR YOUR WONDERFUL LEGAL ADVICE!!!!

AT FIRST....I WAS CONFUSED BY YOUR REPLY....I THOUGHT I WAS ON THE WRONG WEBSITE....I WANTED LEGAL INFORMATION...AND I GOT ADVICE FOR PROPER "WEB-CONSIDERED" TYPING ETIQUTE INSTEAD?!?!? LOL!

ANYWAYS.... I WILL DEFINETLY FOLLOW UP ON MY QDRO BULL****..I SPOKE WITH MY EX LAWYER VERBALLY AND L/M FOR HIS LAWYER AND NO RESPONSE...I NEED FIND OUT HOW TO REQUEST TO ADMEND THE ORDER AND WHAT FORMS TO USE TO ACCOMPLISH THIS..AND IF I CAN GO REPRESENT MYSELF IN COURT BECAUSE THE AMENDMENT IS PRETTY BASIC.

AS FOR THE "SHOUTING" CAPITAL TEXT ADVICE...WELL I AM IN A FORUM FOR DIVORCE,SEPERATION,AND ANNULMENT, IM FRUSTRATED AS ALL HELL THAT I PAID MY FLIPPIN LAWYER EIGHTEEN THOUSAND DOLLARS AND IM IN THIS MESS?!?! AND MY SCREEN NAME IS HUSBANDECTOMY....SO, I WAS SHOUTING!! SO ACTUALLY THE CAPITAL FONT WAS APPROPRIATE FOR THE SUBJECT AND CONTENT IT CONTAINED! LOL!


AND JUST TO LET YOU KNOW.....IM NOT SHOUTING IN THIS REPLY TO YOU....IM USING CAPITAL TEXT JUST TO ANNOY YOU! J/K.


(I HAD A BAD DAY AT WORK...SO PLEASE DONT TAKE THIS REPLY PERSONALLY...AND IF YOU NEED ANY ADVICE FROM A REGISTERED NURSE PLEASE LET ME KNOW! )

sincerely from the bottom of my heart for taking the time to help me out!

HUSBANDECTOMY

 

[Proserpina]

THANK YOU SOOOOOOO MUCH FOR YOUR WONDERFUL LEGAL ADVICE!!!!

AT FIRST....I WAS CONFUSED BY YOUR REPLY....I THOUGHT I WAS ON THE WRONG WEBSITE....I WANTED LEGAL INFORMATION...AND I GOT ADVICE FOR PROPER "WEB-CONSIDERED" TYPING ETIQUTE INSTEAD?!?!? LOL!

ANYWAYS.... I WILL DEFINETLY FOLLOW UP ON MY QDRO BULL****..I SPOKE WITH MY EX LAWYER VERBALLY AND L/M FOR HIS LAWYER AND NO RESPONSE...I NEED FIND OUT HOW TO REQUEST TO ADMEND THE ORDER AND WHAT FORMS TO USE TO ACCOMPLISH THIS..AND IF I CAN GO REPRESENT MYSELF IN COURT BECAUSE THE AMENDMENT IS PRETTY BASIC.

AS FOR THE "SHOUTING" CAPITAL TEXT ADVICE...WELL I AM IN A FORUM FOR DIVORCE,SEPERATION,AND ANNULMENT, IM FRUSTRATED AS ALL HELL THAT I PAID MY FLIPPIN LAWYER EIGHTEEN THOUSAND DOLLARS AND IM IN THIS MESS?!?! AND MY SCREEN NAME IS HUSBANDECTOMY....SO, I WAS SHOUTING!! SO ACTUALLY THE CAPITAL FONT WAS APPROPRIATE FOR THE SUBJECT AND CONTENT IT CONTAINED! LOL!


AND JUST TO LET YOU KNOW.....IM NOT SHOUTING IN THIS REPLY TO YOU....IM USING CAPITAL TEXT JUST TO ANNOY YOU! J/K.


(I HAD A BAD DAY AT WORK...SO PLEASE DONT TAKE THIS REPLY PERSONALLY...AND IF YOU NEED ANY ADVICE FROM A REGISTERED NURSE PLEASE LET ME KNOW! )

sincerely from the bottom of my heart for taking the time to help me out!

HUSBANDECTOMY

I doubt we need advice from someone with your...issues.

Thanks, though.

 

[HUSBANDECTOMY]

Also....I was wondering!?!?!


Who is we?

You stated that "One reason we type like this"

Do you mean Lawyers.....Women.....Men....Computer Geeks...People with Type A personalities .....???

I just wanted to know....

Later,
Husbandectomy

 

[Proserpina]

Also....I was wondering!?!?!


Who is we?

You stated that "One reason we type like this"

Do you mean Lawyers.....Women.....Men....Computer Geeks...People with Type A personalities .....???

I just wanted to know....

Later,
Husbandectomy

"We" = anyone with a modicum of netiquette sense

You're welcome

 

[Bali Hai]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? I LIVE IN CALIFORNIA. I RECIEVED A COPY OF LETTER THAT WAS INITIALLY MAILED TO MY EX'S LAWYER (NOT MINE) THAT STATED THE ORDERED QDRO DID NOT QUALIFY UNDER APPLICABLE FEDERAL LAW AND THAT AREAS OF DEFICIENCY WERE REQUIRED TO BE AMENDED OR CLARIFIED AND THERE WAS THREE AREAS. I NO LONGER HAVE MY LAWYER AND I FOLLOWED UP WITH MY EX'S THE RETIREMENT COMPANY PER THE COPY I RECIEVED AND THEY TOLD ME THAT NOTHING HAS BEEN DONE. THE LETTER IS A YEAR OLD NOW AND I THOUGHT MY LAWYER F/U ON THE MATTER WAY BACK WHEN SENT HER A COPY OF MY COPY ETC..AND THE QDRO IS STILL IN LIMBO AT THIS TIME.

MY QUESTION IS...IF THE RETIREMENT COMPANY SENT THE LETTER TO MY EXS LAWYER (BECAUSE ITS HIS LAWYER AND HIS RETIREMENT FUND) AND SHE DID NOTHING TO RESOLVE THE MATTER BY CHANGING THE LANGUAGE , ADDING MY SOCIAL, USING FULL LEGAL NAMES ETC. (THESE WERE THE THREE SIMPLE AREAS TO ADMEND) THEN IS SHE AT FAULT.

ALSO WHAT CAN I DO TO ADMEND THE QDRO SO THAT IT IS IN EFFECT. I NO LONG HAVE MY LAWYER AND I WOULD LIKE TO HANDLE THE ISSUE MY SELF.


PLEASE HELP ME...MY EX DOESNT DESERVE THE HOLIDAY OF NO PAY LOL! HE MARRIED THE WOMAN HE HAD AN AFFAIR ON ME..LAST YEAR..AND DATED HER OUR ENTIRE TWELVE YEAR THREE KID LATER JOKE OF A MARRIAGE. I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE THE HAND OUT .


SINCERLY,
HUSBANDECTOMY

IT SHOULD HAVE BEEN YOU AND YOUR LAWYER ORDERED TO DRAFT AND SUBMIT THE QDRO SINCE IT INVOLVES YOUR PROPERTY.

My ex and her stupid lawyer had to do it three times before they got it right. To top that her stupid lawyer tried to get me to pay for it.

 

[ecmst12]

It is very rude to type in all caps. Obviously you don't care and think you should be able to yell at the world because you are angry at your ex.

 

[Bali Hai]

It is very rude to type in all caps. Obviously you don't care and think you should be able to yell at the world because you are angry at your ex.

OP has already been advised of this.