StaceyTudman
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? New York
Hi, I'm sure you all get these types of problems all the time, but I need some clarification for something. I'm going to have a long post because I want you to have all the details here.
So my name is Stacey, and my boyfriends name is T.J. just so we can get names straight to prevent confusion.
T.J.s father's name is Thomas and he has a companion named Joselina.
A year ago, Thomas asked TJ and I if we wanted to take over his house because he wanted to get into assisted living, and if he did so, the place he was looking into would somehow gain ownership of his house. It was agreed between Thomas and TJ that Tj gives Thomas $2,000 to cover back taxes on the house, and that would be it. Thomas would leave in a month and transfer ownership to TJ. We do not pay rent, as he was going to give us the house as a gift of sorts. TJ never got a receipt for that $2,000, and there is only a contract in the works at this point.
That never happened, but we coexisted for a while. Eventually, Thomas moved in with Joselina in her own place, and kept telling TJ and I that he was working on transferring the house into his name. Meanwhile we're paying taxes, insurance, all house bills on our own. We even bough a dog, a happy home.
So two days ago, Thomas told TJ that Joselina cannot afford the apartment she is in now. She was looking at a one bedroom apartment, but Thomas and Joselina sleep in different rooms, so that wasn't an option.
Thomas says he wants Joselina to come back and live in the house we're in with him, and that we can't all be together because he can't handle the dog shedding due to his OCD about cleanliness. He has therefore told us we have to leave by July 1st.
We have not received anything in writing, just been told by him.
We have been struggling lately because TJ doesn't work right now, so I have no money for a security deposit elsewhere. Potentially, we can both go to our respective mothers' home in the meantime, but I don't want to do that if I have rights to stay.
I feel there is something illegal here, can he really just boot us by saying so? Can he really just make us go because he doesn't like dog hair? What happens if we don't leave? Can he just lock us out? What are my rights? Can someone help me please? What steps need to be taken on both sides?
Hi, I'm sure you all get these types of problems all the time, but I need some clarification for something. I'm going to have a long post because I want you to have all the details here.
So my name is Stacey, and my boyfriends name is T.J. just so we can get names straight to prevent confusion.
T.J.s father's name is Thomas and he has a companion named Joselina.
A year ago, Thomas asked TJ and I if we wanted to take over his house because he wanted to get into assisted living, and if he did so, the place he was looking into would somehow gain ownership of his house. It was agreed between Thomas and TJ that Tj gives Thomas $2,000 to cover back taxes on the house, and that would be it. Thomas would leave in a month and transfer ownership to TJ. We do not pay rent, as he was going to give us the house as a gift of sorts. TJ never got a receipt for that $2,000, and there is only a contract in the works at this point.
That never happened, but we coexisted for a while. Eventually, Thomas moved in with Joselina in her own place, and kept telling TJ and I that he was working on transferring the house into his name. Meanwhile we're paying taxes, insurance, all house bills on our own. We even bough a dog, a happy home.
So two days ago, Thomas told TJ that Joselina cannot afford the apartment she is in now. She was looking at a one bedroom apartment, but Thomas and Joselina sleep in different rooms, so that wasn't an option.
Thomas says he wants Joselina to come back and live in the house we're in with him, and that we can't all be together because he can't handle the dog shedding due to his OCD about cleanliness. He has therefore told us we have to leave by July 1st.
We have not received anything in writing, just been told by him.
We have been struggling lately because TJ doesn't work right now, so I have no money for a security deposit elsewhere. Potentially, we can both go to our respective mothers' home in the meantime, but I don't want to do that if I have rights to stay.
I feel there is something illegal here, can he really just boot us by saying so? Can he really just make us go because he doesn't like dog hair? What happens if we don't leave? Can he just lock us out? What are my rights? Can someone help me please? What steps need to be taken on both sides?
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